Finding Your "g-spot" As A Straight Cis Male

[deleted907269]

At some point when growing up, all cis male have figured out that jerking off is good fun, easy to access and very effective, a no brainer.
But the prostate is more elusive and requires intent.

Have you ever been curious and considered to explore, locate and/or stimulate your prostate?

This question comes from a total ignorance of the straight psyche as I have no clue as to how much, or how little, of a taboo this might be.

 

[cofrader]

At some point when growing up, all cis male have figured out that jerking off is good fun, easy to access and very effective, a no brainer.
But the prostate is more elusive and requires intent.

Have you ever been curious and considered to explore, locate and/or stimulate your prostate?

This question comes from a total ignorance of the straight psyche as I have no clue as to how much, or how little, of a taboo this might be.

Never considered never needed.
I don’t see how do you expect to tap on straight psychology looking on self stimulation that is very primitive perhaps even before the completion of the mind.
A better approach perhaps would be ask how can you love a woman if you barely understand her. How can get her to orgasm. I didn’t even try to find her g-spot because some claim it didn’t exists.
Perhaps we are wired to perhaps you don’t need anything but love to love and somehow orgasm appear.
Back on the prostate to me it’s just another organ for my doctor to keep healthy. But since a men could be fucked by a woman and still be straight, I don’t see the relevance.
If a gay man states that loves to penetrate a gay man ass would you ask him if he would prefer to fuck a woman pussy instead because it’s just friction on his penis. I believe human are more than physical sensations.

 

[deleted907269]

Well I guess my question comes from a rather simple and maybe naive curiosity in what is the relationship straight cis males have with their g-spot?

 

[Dport]

Me and an ex gf used to get down. Easily the best orgasms of my life. Shit would have me speaking in tongues.

It eventually lost it's kinky, taboo-ness and we stopped.

 

[Frozen Heart]

I am not gonna lie. I once played alone with my prostate out of curiosity when I was a teenager. I guess just once.... I never felt the need to do it again.

Conclusion: I can understand it is pleasurable, but it is not for me. I already have problems with anal with women, I can't stand the idea of playing with my prostate. I can't stand to , so I avoid it. I am satisfied with a nice pussy.

Women have all the toys that I want to play with.

 

[ronin001]

I did not know the term Cis existed till a few weeks ago and I googled it

To answer , No, I have no curiosity about that part of my anatomy

 

[jtheimpaler]

An older woman quite early on in my sexploration inserted a digit towards the end of a blow job… and once you’ve pressed that button haha

 

[Gj816]

Yes I have explored my prostate, and do on a semi regular basis. Men who are either afraid or lack concern over an organ that plays such an important role in sex are missing out and perhaps not realizing that having a healthy prostate means also having a healthy sex life.

As I've gotten older I've realized through visits with my dr that as we age the prostate increases in size. My urologists says it's important to keep a healthy prostate.

Actually the prostate can be massaged one of two ways extremely or internally. I've done both. In order to milk the prostate, and for intense prostate orgasms it's usually best done with a prostate massager. However, they have one now that will massage it both internally and externally simultaneously. I would suggest that every man should at least become familiar with his pprostate.

 

[SSS79]

Yes, I have explored with anal insertions while masturbating during my teenage years, I don't know if I ever experienced prostate pleasure those days; but it was pleasurable! After I got married, my wife used her finger to stimulate my prostate during blowjobs/handjobs and even during sex!, we tried pegging a couple of times out of curiosity and spicing up our sex life;
The fact is: every man whether straight or gay have this organ, and if touched and stimulated in a right way, it should feel very good and arousing; but some straight men confuse anal play/ prostate play with being partly gay, and this is totally wrong! i enjoy anal fingering, rimming, and prostate stimulation and I know I'm 100% straight! it has nothing to do with your orientation! It's the same as asking how straight women differ from gay women in enjoying clit stimulation or vaginal insertions??! this is a misleading discussion!

 

[P Dubble]

Yes, I have explored with anal insertions while masturbating during my teenage years, I don't know if I ever experienced prostate pleasure those days; but it was pleasurable! After I got married, my wife used her finger to stimulate my prostate during blowjobs/handjobs and even during sex!, we tried pegging a couple of times out of curiosity and spicing up our sex life;
The fact is: every man whether straight or gay have this organ, and if touched and stimulated in a right way, it should feel very good and arousing; but some straight men confuse anal play/ prostate play with being partly gay, and this is totally wrong! i enjoy anal fingering, rimming, and prostate stimulation and I know I'm 100% straight! it has nothing to do with your orientation! It's the same as asking how straight women differ from gay women in enjoying clit stimulation or vaginal insertions??! this is a misleading discussion!

I completely agree.

 

[deleted907269]

Thanks for your replies, not much can be implied so far, but there might be a correlation between prostate play and perceived homosexuality?

 

[scarymovie3]

i tried but i couldn't find it, i even tried using a vibrator. i didn't found it so i never tried again.

i think being staight doesn't rule what you do to get aroused and pleasure. i say this because the OP is 100% gay asking this on the straight forum.
i may even dare to say that even if i liked to get penetrated in the ass to get those explosive orgasms they talk about does or would not make me gay at all. to me gay is a person who likes and gets attracted to another person of his own gender.

 

[deleted814719]

I regularly do external prostate massage on myself. My wife will massage my prostate externally and rub my taint. I find that my orgasms are much more intense in both cases. If I'm playing solo, I enjoy edging and doing external prostate massage. I can often get near PONR and stop stroking or playing with my cock. When I find just the right spot by rubbing my prostate/taint area, my cock starts leaking a watery white fluid. I can continue this for up to a minute and while the volume of fluid isn't large, it keeps leaking. The whole experience feels amazing to me and keeps me ramped up. In other words, I'm still very horny.

My most intense orgasms are actually those when I either slide a finger into my ass or my wife does it. That seems to make my cock harder and my dribbling cum becomes shooting cum.

 

[Frozen Heart]

Thanks for your replies, not much can be implied so far, but there might be a correlation between prostate play and perceived homosexuality?

Yes. Well, anal sex is explored by gay men. Straight men usually don't explore anything related to their butts or do so in secrecy with their female partners to avoid judgment of others. I would say it is rare to find straight men who like to play with their prostate since there is a stigma to it.

But, if you want to know where is the g-spot of straight men, I can give you an answer: it is in the head of the penis when they are inside a woman's body and not it their prostates.

 

[scarymovie3]

But, if you want to know where is the g-spot of straight men, I can give you an answer: it is in the head of the penis when they are inside a woman's body and not it their prostates.

Oh really

 

[nakedguy77]

At some point when growing up, all cis male have figured out that jerking off is good fun, easy to access and very effective, a no brainer.
But the prostate is more elusive and requires intent.

Have you ever been curious and considered to explore, locate and/or stimulate your prostate?

This question comes from a total ignorance of the straight psyche as I have no clue as to how much, or how little, of a taboo this might be.

Oh yeah I heard about it and had tried out after that I love it and I've never turn it back

 

[deleted6505551]

I'd strongly advise revisiting this. Speaking from experience the P spot orgasm is both difficult to accomplish and worth every minute invested. Nobody with a prostate should live their life never having experienced that full body, weak in the knees orgasm.

Just my 2 cents.

 

[Sagittarius84]

Well I guess my question comes from a rather simple and maybe naive curiosity in what is the relationship straight cis males have with their g-spot?

Generally none, because frankly with all the sexual repertoire our cis female counterparts come to the table, very few are interested in helping us attain such pleasure, with the majority averse or repulsed by man pleasuring himself in general, not even getting into anal things. So that typically will keep us from exploring ourselves in that area, and our sole attraction to cis women prevents any other more interested demographic from giving it a go.
Most understand quite early on if no good consequence is likely to come from being walked in on jerking it to porn, anal play(if we were interested) will be recieved far worse.

 

[techpump]

Prostate orgasms are a part of my life, have been for the last almost 8 years and I tried to have them for 10 years before that. Orgasmic ejaculation with a prostate massager inside of you is like cumming in stereo, the pulsations and contractions are so deeply felt once you have an orgasm/ejaculation like that you crave it like a smoker craves a cig.

There is absolutely nothing "gay" about trying to make yourself experience pleasure with the body parts you--EVERY MAN--was born with. Holding hands with another man is way more "gay" to me than a guy alone trying to experience otherworldly pleasures from their own body. Prostate play when my wife is involved is sensual, fun and loving.

When she rides your cock and the toy is inside you fucking your ass and prostate all on its own against your will, and every time she tweaks your hard on inside of her it creates a spasm in your penis that makes it jump, which triggers your anus to contract, which drives the toy inside of you and it makes contact with your prostate, and then that stimulation makes your cock jump, while you're still inside her, feeling her silky wet walls work your shaft, and its like a reflexive sexual circle...yah, go tell me this is really homosexual behavior and is only a "gay" hobby or pursuit...

 

[notthatguy]

I have never played or wanted to play with my prostate but I have been sucked off and they were playing with my prostate with explosive results.