4.5 mid shaft. especially on this site that is so thin, even though average. my length at 6.5 bpe is a bit above average so i feel it makes it look thinner. sigh.
I found skinny guys attractive and love blowing skinny dicks because my "bite" is small
I started thinking I had a thin dick ever since college back in 1997 when I was having sex with a girl and she commented on how thick my dick was compared to other guys she had been with. Now I am not sure if that is because she was with guys who were very thick, the size of her body or if I really had a thin dick. So ever since that point I have always thought my dick was skinny. I would like to continue this conversation if anyone is interested. Either in private message or on the message boards. I will even show pics if that would help?
I started thinking I had a thin dick ever since college back in 1997 when I was having sex with a girl and she commented on how thick my dick was compared to other guys she had been with. Now I am not sure if that is because she was with guys who were very thick, the size of her body or if I really had a thin dick. So ever since that point I have always thought my dick was skinny. I would like to continue this conversation if anyone is interested. Either in private message or on the message boards. I will even show pics if that would help?
I started thinking I had a thin dick ever since college back in 1997 when I was having sex with a girl and she commented on how thick my dick was compared to other guys she had been with. Now I am not sure if that is because she was with guys who were very thick, the size of her body or if I really had a thin dick. So ever since that point I have always thought my dick was skinny. I would like to continue this conversation if anyone is interested. Either in private message or on the message boards. I will even show pics if that would help?
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I had a mate in the Merchant Navy who had a thin dick. We always had amazing sex as he could always bury himself in my tight ass till his balls were hammering, and always hit the spot, had amazing endurance and never once lost any erection. So for me thin dicked guys are hot.
no one has ever complained. but OTOH no one has ever said “what a great cock.” it must be quite an ego rush to have a big thick cock and as you press into your partner, either male or female, hear them moan, “oh fuck, you are so big” and beg you to go easy.
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Having had massive cocks thrust into me and pencil-thick dicks it was more than possible the only one of complimented was the pencil dicks. Yeh between gritted teeth I've begged them to go easy but never said, with gratitude, oh you are so big!
oh i meantbhearing “oh fuck you are so big”msaid in awe or trepidation!
I have a very skinny dick, 4.3" girth at the best, with a slightly larger glans. If I use a cock ring and super engorge, I'm lucky to be 4.4". It took me awhile to be sexually active for religious reasons, but I remember the first condom I tried was very loose and I was shocked. It wasn't a magnum, just a regular Trojan. I did switch to Lifestyles and those felt tighter, but many times when getting soft they would slip off when I would exit the vagina. That is more due to erectile dysfunction, which makes a skinny dick even more useless. I think many times the girls were trying to grip the dick just to feel something, but this mostly just caused the condom to get stuck while I pulled out.
Out of 30 something partners, I only had 2 or 3 make serious moaning/groaning/yelling from penetration. These were typically petite girls, some asian. At least with my length, I can get a good depth which helps in some cases. I have had a girl say 'too deep' and 'so deep' a few times.
Surprisingly, I have always had women want to come back for seconds, with the exception of obvious one night stand situations (usually tinder girls in town for a short period).
There was only one time I had a negative comment, the girl asked 'is it getting bigger?' in a very concerned tone. I was mostly erect. After, she asked if her pussy was tight enough for me. I managed to cum, so it was for me. She did thank me for the sex ironically. Perhaps because she was not attractive and hadn't had any for awhile. I didn't bother trying to see her again, as she was below my normal attraction level, she tricked me with better pictures online and I didnt want to turn her away. So I guess its good that she was my only bad comment...
I have had massage parlor women (prostitutes) make comments like 'perfect size for me, can't fuck too much'. I think one time one was laughing because of my dick (but not sure, could have been laughing for some other reason).
When some of those women grab it to ride on top, most are chubby and it looks like inserting a pencil that could break in half. So, I'm not a huge fan of cowgirl. Also tend to lose my erection in that position.
I did have one off/on partner who was cheating on her fiance, and she said his was too big and made her hurt/bleed. So, its funny to point out that she was cheating on a big dick for a pencil dick! She was also a petite asian.
I have never been with men, but have been with pre-op transwomen. That was what caused my biggest insecurity, once I realized the girth disparity. I was blissfully unaware of how much I was lacking, and how it affects sex in general, after all, I dont want real couples have sex, only porn. And I knew porn is exaggerated and chosen to have the biggest dicks. But now I know, even normal non-porn guys are mostly bigger than me and it affects pleasure.
As for the trans, they have all been thicker than me, except for one which was probably 4" x 3.5". It was quite tiny, and she was insecure. Also it had a weird bend and extra skin. A very unfortunate dick, to say the least. At least I can say my length was longer than half of them, I saw a couple short stubby ones. And I was close in length in general. I am 6.5" length bonepressed and fully erect.
So while its not thick, I have not been deepthroated by many. Maybe 3 women have fully throated it while erect.
If I didn't feel a thicker trans dick, or spend time online, I probably would have gone through my life somewhat ignorant of my poor girth. And life would probably be fine, as I said no woman has disparaged me, or walked out, and almost all have come back for a second date or more (even with bad erection quality in many cases).
Its important to note, if you look at the stats, average girth is around 4.6, so 4.25 is one standard deviation below, and roughly 20-25% of men have this girth. 1 out of 4 men do not have a girthy dick, its a large number and most women will encounter it and many will even settle for it.
Out of 30 something partners, I only had 2 or 3 make serious moaning/groaning/yelling from penetration. These were typically petite girls, some asian. At least with my length, I can get a good depth which helps in some cases. I have had a girl say 'too deep' and 'so deep' a few times.
Surprisingly, I have always had women want to come back for seconds, with the exception of obvious one night stand situations (usually tinder girls in town for a short period).
There was only one time I had a negative comment, the girl asked 'is it getting bigger?' in a very concerned tone. I was mostly erect. After, she asked if her pussy was tight enough for me. I managed to cum, so it was for me. She did thank me for the sex ironically. Perhaps because she was not attractive and hadn't had any for awhile. I didn't bother trying to see her again, as she was below my normal attraction level, she tricked me with better pictures online and I didnt want to turn her away. So I guess its good that she was my only bad comment...
I have had massage parlor women (prostitutes) make comments like 'perfect size for me, can't fuck too much'. I think one time one was laughing because of my dick (but not sure, could have been laughing for some other reason).
When some of those women grab it to ride on top, most are chubby and it looks like inserting a pencil that could break in half. So, I'm not a huge fan of cowgirl. Also tend to lose my erection in that position.
I did have one off/on partner who was cheating on her fiance, and she said his was too big and made her hurt/bleed. So, its funny to point out that she was cheating on a big dick for a pencil dick! She was also a petite asian.
I have never been with men, but have been with pre-op transwomen. That was what caused my biggest insecurity, once I realized the girth disparity. I was blissfully unaware of how much I was lacking, and how it affects sex in general, after all, I dont want real couples have sex, only porn. And I knew porn is exaggerated and chosen to have the biggest dicks. But now I know, even normal non-porn guys are mostly bigger than me and it affects pleasure.
As for the trans, they have all been thicker than me, except for one which was probably 4" x 3.5". It was quite tiny, and she was insecure. Also it had a weird bend and extra skin. A very unfortunate dick, to say the least. At least I can say my length was longer than half of them, I saw a couple short stubby ones. And I was close in length in general. I am 6.5" length bonepressed and fully erect.
So while its not thick, I have not been deepthroated by many. Maybe 3 women have fully throated it while erect.
If I didn't feel a thicker trans dick, or spend time online, I probably would have gone through my life somewhat ignorant of my poor girth. And life would probably be fine, as I said no woman has disparaged me, or walked out, and almost all have come back for a second date or more (even with bad erection quality in many cases).
Its important to note, if you look at the stats, average girth is around 4.6, so 4.25 is one standard deviation below, and roughly 20-25% of men have this girth. 1 out of 4 men do not have a girthy dick, its a large number and most women will encounter it and many will even settle for it.
100% understand your situation. I'm even smaller with only 6" in length with the girth about 4.25-4.35 depending. So everything you said I completely agree with. Problem is I'm gay and most men want big and thick ones .Its like a requirement it seems. So its much tougher to find repeat sex buds and most hookups are disappointed. Also think its why I haven't really had a bf is because of my size. Guys will move onto someone that have a larger one generally...but casue in the gay community its all about size. I have had guys turn me down or turn me away. It has happened.
Hm, thats unfortunate. But surely you have more length than a good percentage? There are lots of men with less than 6", like I said I have seen 3 transwomen out of 7 had less length than me. I have a gay friend and he doesn't turn any dicks down. He will turn down chubby men however.
Also, I showed him a lineup of cylinder objects I had lying around the house, from 4, 4.25, 4.5, 4.9, 5.5 and 5.9 circumference. I asked him what the average was, and he pointed to the 4.5" and said he's seen a lot of dicks like that. (around 6" length as well) I think he's had over 100 dicks, maybe a lot more by now.
Just telling you my experience with gay men in the past 20-25 years I've been dating gay men. Most want something on the XL size. Not that smaller dicked or pencil dicked guys cant get action. I'm just saying my experiences haven't been favorable, or had many repeats.
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I remember one guy who had a very thin dick. His dick was about 8" long, so he had the length, but I'm guessing it was about 3" around. He is the only guy I have ever considered having a "pencil dick". But damn, he could fuck! Had lots of fun with him.
My ex-wife measured me couple of years ago, 4" length when erect and about 3 3/4" in girth.
The biggest issue is finding condom that fits tight, regular condoms are too loose so the sensation is lacking.
The biggest issue is finding condom that fits tight, regular condoms are too loose so the sensation is lacking.
wow, that is very thin! You can try MyOne condoms? They go down to very small sizes. I know this because I have used them to get condoms that tighter than usual. You can get custom length as well. Its nice to have a perfect fit condom
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Amazing similarities with what you have gone through and myself. I am not gay or Bi - but I do love cleaning up multiple sperm off/in a woman!
I love multiple condom play after they have been stretched by big cocks(i get mine from a hotwife/hotwives gangbang). I put them on and see how much i compare.....(i will post another gallery today).
I realised my cock was no dong after ex GFs decribed how big previous partners were. One ex who cheated on me said one guys cock was so big - a condom from my stash wouldn't fit on his dick so they went bareback.....(i went instantly hard!)
**Durex for smaller cocks - I use XXL to masturbate with, slightly baggy
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My dick is on the thin side...
It is 6.5" long and 4.3 around mid shaft.
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My ex had issues with feeling much from me. One time she actually told me to put it in when I already was!
And in discussing my size she told me I was plenty long enough for her ...but then followed up with, "if anything, you could be a little thicker. "
I had difficulty staying erect inside her due to very little friction. She complained about that. I would often put a hand on her perineum and push up so I could get some stimulation.
My girlfriend now is much tighter and can grip me tightly with her muscles. She kegels a lot! Fucking is great for me but she doesn't orgasm from it. She climaxes from direct clitoral stimulation, so my hands and fingers work magic on her. No dick needed!
I still feel lacking in sexual performance and ability by being handicapped with a thin cock. Most often it is girth that women confess to like the most, and thin dicks are often the butt of jokes.
As a bi male I love thick cocks!
It is 6.5" long and 4.3 around mid shaft.
My ex had issues with feeling much from me. One time she actually told me to put it in when I already was!
And in discussing my size she told me I was plenty long enough for her ...but then followed up with, "if anything, you could be a little thicker. "
I had difficulty staying erect inside her due to very little friction. She complained about that. I would often put a hand on her perineum and push up so I could get some stimulation.
My girlfriend now is much tighter and can grip me tightly with her muscles. She kegels a lot! Fucking is great for me but she doesn't orgasm from it. She climaxes from direct clitoral stimulation, so my hands and fingers work magic on her. No dick needed!
I still feel lacking in sexual performance and ability by being handicapped with a thin cock. Most often it is girth that women confess to like the most, and thin dicks are often the butt of jokes.
As a bi male I love thick cocks!
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