homoerotic behavior

[ERSTF]

Forgot to add. In case you see he does nothing or that he doesn't respond or looks visibly not ok with what you are doing, then abbort mission. If it was with the vid, you just stop grabbing your dick and casually change the mood and subject by saying "dude, did you watch the trailer for (insert new movie that he might be interested in)" and put the trailer on. If it is the competition thing, if he doesn't bait just ended with "such a chicken shit. Do you wanna grab something to eat or watch something" and change subject like nothing happened. Same with the boxers thing

 

[ERSTF]

I have a very homoerotic friendship with a friend from years. It started with normal chats about jerking off and stuff. He is a very touchy guy so he is always hugging, asking for massages, feet rubs, back rubs. I love how comfortable he is with me. Once he started staying over at my place he started putting his legs over mine. Then he started asking for leg rubs so I obliged. When summer came, we would be hanging out in boxer briefs and he would still put his legs over mine. Then one day I saw he got a boner. I pointed it out and he started laughing. When he stays over he sleeps on my bed with me. We started jerking off and it has become a regular thing. I find this thread very hot, as you. So I did take some pics of some incidents with him. One was not long ago where he got hard and send some dick pics to his gf.

 

[Lucius2s1]

I have a very homoerotic friendship with a friend from years. It started with normal chats about jerking off and stuff. He is a very touchy guy so he is always hugging, asking for massages, feet rubs, back rubs. I love how comfortable he is with me. Once he started staying over at my place he started putting his legs over mine. Then he started asking for leg rubs so I obliged. When summer came, we would be hanging out in boxer briefs and he would still put his legs over mine. Then one day I saw he got a boner. I pointed it out and he started laughing. When he stays over he sleeps on my bed with me. We started jerking off and it has become a regular thing. I find this thread very hot, as you. So I did take some pics of some incidents with him. One was not long ago where he got hard and send some dick pics to his gf.

Fuck yeah man

 

[ERSTF]

I’m afraid he might shut me down and that we might lose our friendship. He’s such a great person to be around with, but I feel like there’s always been this hidden tension between the both of us. I feel like if I come clean about wanting to experiment something different, he might as well take a step back and stop talking to me. He jokes a lot about it, he has even sent me pictures of him grabbing his bulge, but I guess that’s as far as it will go. I’ve always wondered what it’d be like to jerk off with him while watching porn, but I guess that’s never going to happen.

Keep us posted by the way

 

[ERSTF]

Fuck yeah man

It's a friendship I like a lot

 

[Lucius2s1]

It's a friendship I like a lot

I bet dude. Need me a friend like that.

 

[ERSTF]

Last week, I had another friend over who I jerk off with

 

[James0909]

Hung out with a good buddy last week, first time in a long time. Long hug before I left, bulge to bulge. Nothing more, just good to hold each other for a minute.

I’ve had plenty of bulge to bulge on crowded public transport with some very good looking men

I’ll have to share in more detail soon

 

[4097701]

I have a light crush on a friend but I'm not sure if it's just one sided or if there is something there.

I've had two things happen that make me think there may be more there.

First: We take lunch often together and we enjoy talking about a wide arrange of things. Basically life stuff but nothing personal or sexual. This one time we went to a usual lunch spot. Lucked out and got a booth together but it was a tight fit. The cushion seats were not right on top of each other but very close.

While waiting for the food our legs occasionally touched. Nothing long pressing but it did make me a bit nervous. After we ate though both of my legs got right inl with his. I semi moved but also was waiting for him to wiggle position first as my seat was pushed closer to the table and it was more difficult for me to move. He didn't move at all and we spent the rest of waiting for the check like this which was a good 15 to 20 minutes. Am I reading too much into this? Do guys not really care when they basically manspread hold hands but with their legs?

Second: His computer went blank and asked if a could figure out what happened. Went to help him out, my first thought was the computer screen cord to the computer was unplugged. But it wasn't. He was about a few inches away from me and was looking as well. Once I knew it wasn't that I looked to make sure the screen was on - I moved my hand to find the tiny button on the right side sliding to find it my friend who was close did the same thing as to help find it. He casually placed his hand on top of mine and held there for a good min. It could of been out of frustration or just an accident. It made me nervous because it wasn't my action at all. Does this happen often to straight/bi guys and they just ignore it?

Should I push further or is there a clear sign to indicate he's interested in more to look out for? Honestly I think it's wishful thinking and I'm find with keeping it as friends. He provides enough attention and is very good looking so that it's fun to fantasize about.

Long post but I'm really confused by all of this and would appreciate any feedback.

I have two friends who act like this, neither is born in America and I think that has a lot to do with it, one is from Bangladesh, I work with him and we love each other, I wouldn't be surprised if he had gay experiences when he was young, because I know that is common... he knows I'm gay and constantly touches me, will grab me by the hand when he wants to tell me something.. and hold on to it until i'm uncomfortable, because i'm getting a boner lol.... but I highly doubt it's sexual for him
my other friend is Dominican, and he is so touchy feely with everyone... when i see him, I get horny, when he touches me it gets worse lol... he is so fucking hot and just holding and touching me all the time, but totally not gay 100% argh
Americans can't deal with non sexual intimate touching between men... other places, including muslim countries can deal with it... we are the biggest prudes in the world i think

 

[ERSTF]

Last week, I had another friend over who I jerk off with

Update from that visit

 

[Trevorruggles]

I have two friends who act like this, neither is born in America and I think that has a lot to do with it, one is from Bangladesh, I work with him and we love each other, I wouldn't be surprised if he had gay experiences when he was young, because I know that is common... he knows I'm gay and constantly touches me, will grab me by the hand when he wants to tell me something.. and hold on to it until i'm uncomfortable, because i'm getting a boner lol.... but I highly doubt it's sexual for him
my other friend is Dominican, and he is so touchy feely with everyone... when i see him, I get horny, when he touches me it gets worse lol... he is so fucking hot and just holding and touching me all the time, but totally not gay 100% argh
Americans can't deal with non sexual intimate touching between men... other places, including muslim countries can deal with it... we are the biggest prudes in the world i think

I agree with you we are prudes until we learn, for the most of us anyway, about the varying cultures. Chase and I got married at 19 and took 14 days leave. We spent those days in Italy driving from Naples to Milan. The first day we got in late and slept in waking to the normal honeymoon activities before venturing out to Capri. On the ferry ride over to the island we noticed men arm in arm, holding hands and leaning on each other. Our first thoughts were-wow, there are a lot of gay men in Naples. Hardly the case but having never been exposed to Italian culture you automatically resort to your own imprinting. Another example of learning was-We work around a lot of men from all over the USA. When I first heard a male refer to their male friend as boyfriend I automatically assumed he was gay but that wasn’t true. There are some societies/cultures in the US that when referring to their male counterpart they use the moniker boyfriend having zero sexual connotations attached to it. It’s a learning curve but it can be confusing while sending the wrong message if we only use our intimacy principals.


Have a great Sunday
Trev

 

[aieaguy50]

Still reeking from my encounter with the neighbor's 19 year old yesterday. I've known BJ for several years, and we've often had conversations when we see one another in our yards. He's a real multi-sport jock, and often is outside in just shorts that show off his well-tanned physique.

So I was in the process of cleaning out my garage, and had asked BJ if he was interested in taking my 8 foot surf board, since I had brought a new one recently. He came over yesterday afternoon, dressed only in his usual flimsy grey basketball shorts, and I had on just an old loose sweatpants that I had cut off into shorts. I climbed on the step stool to reach the overhead rack for the board, and lost my balance. Fortunately he was right behind me, and grabbed my ass cheeks to push me back upright. Then he laughed and gave my shorts a slight tug, pulling them halfway down my butt. When I handed him the board, I jokingly reciprocated and and gave his shorts a yank, a bit more than I intended. The waistband stopped short of the base of his cock, revealing a clean shaved groin below a dark tanline.

What surprised me then was that he made no attempt to hike up his shorts (as I just had), and started asking about rewaxing the board. In fact, during this conversation, he actually reached down and gave his balls a scratch several times, jiggling his more than noticeable cock around a bit. When he turned to leave, I was tempted to give him my usual buddy hug, but was afraid the contact would be too much for my semi hardon already. Just settled on a "high five", and watched him walk off with the board overhead, and half exposed butt cheeks.

 

[Mickey Finn]

I don't know if you'd call this homoerotic, or just plain 'overtly sexual' behaviour. Recently I was having my hair cut in a rather 'blokey' barber shop in London, not my usual place, I just happened to be passing and it looked quiet so I wouldn't have to wait.

The guy who was cutting my hair looked in his early twenties, fit and good -looking, quite stocky, a recognisable London type, a cockney lad. Sexy. Anyway, we chatted a while as you do. Football, music, the weather, the usual small talk. He was just a 'bloke' but, as he worked, he moved around me and stood at my shoulder. He lowered the chair. And I suddenly realised he was standing against me, pushing his groin into my shoulder. At first I couldn't quite believe it. I thought I must be imagining it but as he chatted away about his football team I could feel his bulge pressing hard against my shoulder. There was a lot in there too. Hard. He maintained the pressure for about ten minutes. It was surreal. His face betrayed no hint of what he was doing. My blood - pressure and heartbeat however went up about 100%. Fortunately my massive boner was hidden by the barber's cape and, by the time he whipped the cape away, my dick had softened to a semi. He must have noticed it though, cos he gave me a twinkle and a wink as I paid him. He got a good tip but to be honest I was so completely gob-smacked by what he'd done all I could do was utter a hoarse, dry-mouthed 'thank you' and leave.

I'm planning to go back there again even though it's off my usual beat. I hope he's still there...

 

[masonjames]

 

[Tysonman76]

Army boys

 

[Jake1973]

I had just moved here and I was moving in. The family was back in our old state for another 4 weeks. I invited my boss over one Saturday afternoon to watch the game. Now Scott ( my boss ) is a real military guy strong chinned and military hair cut shorter then me. We always swap military stories etc. I was being social had no clue he would show up.

So I had already started Drinking a few MGDs and he knocks at the door. I'm an 100% free baller when I'm home. I was wearing cut off sweat pants loose fitting and about 2 inches above my knees ( pretty normal) I invite him in we start watching the game - only like last quarter left. A few hours later, and more then 12 beers gone I know I'm pretty buzzed and he was to. We start talking about sex and the girls and couples we had relations with while traveling on business. DONT JUDGE, he makes a few comments about the size of his dick I reply back with a few comments about mine. I catch a few glimpses of his eyes when . I go to the john or return from.
One of the comments he made while talking about our recreational pleasures was his dick was not that long but he knew how to use it. And he had a good size head to stretch her out.
My return comment was that " I'm not big either but I have been told I'm pretty thick and as long as I had either length or girth I was happy". More comments about our dicks here and there.
The Conversation went on like that and we drank more and more beer. Out of the blue after I retuned from the bathroom he says "man I haven't had sex or head in so long....." And He shoots me the serious look- I laughed and briefly hesitated and replied ... What! Your married you should never be without one or the other. He changed the subject on a heart beat and his entire demeanor changed for any hint of sexual chat or disclosure was over. Stands up stretches and says I gotta get going wife's about due to come home......

Maybe not as homoerotic some of your stories... But what do you think he was fishing for- I hot a few other stories from him to tell later. Peace. KB

It's possible he was feeling you out for a circle jerk or something, and when you pointed it back at his wife he took that to mean you weren't into it. Hard to tell without knowing more about the dynamic between you.

 

[Jake1973]

He said no I just thought he might have been dreaming or something and didn't know what he was doing.

Dreaming. Right. This happened to me once while in college. I went to visit my HS girlfriend, who by then was dating someone else (we were and are still good friends). She had another dude staying with her and I can't remember if we were relegated to share a sofa bed or the ballsy fucker just crawled in with me, but I woke up with him behind me rubbing my stomach and playing with my dick. He wasn't even shy about it and commented to her the next day about my size.

 

[Jake1973]

I used to work with a guy who would climb all over you (literally) to get something off a shelf in front of you. He had six kids. I can tell you he wasn't gay he was just rude.

LOL that's funny because that is what little kids do; he was regressing.

I watched this movie recently after someone recommended it here in another thread. In this scene, one guy does this to another as they're all trying to see something on someone's phone. I can't imagine being this handsy with someone in front of our friends. (Scene starts at 7:28 if YouTube doesn't cooperate).

What's funny to me is that the guy getting groped just sits there like a deer in the headlights and lets it happen. Kinda like your friend.

 

[Jake1973]

Yesterday a straight buddy comes by and we go to lunch. Later, we sit on the patio and catch some rays without shirts. So I change and I give him some shorts and he basically trys a bikini style instead. OK, cool. He comes out and says, "How do I look?" Dang, now I never look at my straight bros as anything but platonic cute/handsome. But, he has this epic, and I mean epic, ass. It is like the pefect over muscled shelf ass. It fit him normal in the crotch but I could not get over his ass. I never saw this on him before in jeans. He says, "Well I guess it is a free show." I'm like, "Dude, you rock that look so good." So he trys on a few more styles and decides on a square cut. We just chatted in the sun. It was so great to see him be more free and know he could do that in front of me. Later, he asked about going to a nude beach. I would totally do that with him. But honestly, I would not want him to think Im just doing it to check him out as I love my friend and I know he is straight...like 100% straight. The cling on those swimsuits was stunning. I am talking it was tight into his crack so the suit just framed these long muscle glutes and it was beautiful....like art. Fhuck. I wish my glutes looked nearly as good. He said he didn't know it would feel so free and comfortable. So I told him, he needs to enjoy the look. Part of saying this too is his gal is a conservative carzy girl. I keep thinking if she does not want to let him be this guy why is he with her??? Anyway, it was a little homeerotic but not anything but a male bondin moment. I hope we have others if he is cool with it. It was so nice and peaceful when it unfolded.

So wait, were these his clothes you were trying on, or yours? He was going through your drawers putting different shorts and swimsuits on?

 

[Jake1973]

I work for a state institution and we have our own state police. One of the policeman, who loves pussy, is always telling me I have THO(tittle hard on), and will tweak my nipple. He knows I am gay- he is not interested in having sex with a man, but is very comfortable with himself.