How comfortable are men with being nude in communal showers and locker rooms in your country or culture?

Yes, I agree. How can you be offended by a naked body?? It is the same problem as when we victimize a woman because of the clothing. Absolutely ridiculous. And both things probably commented by people who have a problem with their own sexuality.
thats stupid to think we should shower with clothes on! why couldnt they have a curtain or shower stall with curtains?? problem solved
 
Why do women’s modesty and virtue need to be protected, but not men’s? What makes their body more sacred than ours? I don’t want the world to see my reproductive organs or the reproductive organs of boyfriends that I have. Only my eyes can be on his and his on mines.


It doesn’t make sense to me, I get what you are saying and agree with it all, but men and women’s bodies need to be covered up and I’m glad society has changed to normalizing men also being covered. Nudity is fine in male only spaces or female only spaces, but the male only spaces aren’t always male only, sometimes women enter into our spaces because they feel they have that right, while men are never allowed in female only spaces.
I see where you’re coming from, and I respect your opinion, but it’s important to recognize that your views on nudity and modesty are shaped by the culture, religion, and social norms of the time and place you grew up in. Not everyone sees things the same way, and history shows that attitudes about nudity have varied widely across different societies and periods. In the US, the idea that men and women’s bodies must always be covered is more reflective of Western culture and Judeo-Christian values, than a universal truth. If you see it from an anthropological or historical perspective, the original purpose of clothing was simply to protect humans from the environment and nature, not to cover up for reasons of decency. The idea of clothing as a marker of modesty or morality is something shaped by culture and religion over time.
 
I see where you’re coming from, and I respect your opinion, but it’s important to recognize that your views on nudity and modesty are shaped by the culture, religion, and social norms of the time and place you grew up in. Not everyone sees things the same way, and history shows that attitudes about nudity have varied widely across different societies and periods. In the US, the idea that men and women’s bodies must always be covered is more reflective of Western culture and Judeo-Christian values, than a universal truth. If you see it from an anthropological or historical perspective, the original purpose of clothing was simply to protect humans from the environment and nature, not to cover up for reasons of decency. The idea of clothing as a marker of modesty or morality is something shaped by culture and religion over time.
true but we need both. a balance. like the nude college guy if he wanted to get naked go to a nudist colony. college was for education not to prance around naked. lockers rooms are different. everybody needs to be pride of your body but outside in public oh nope
 
Lots of theories here.... but it all comes down to your "culture".

By culture I mean...your environment, your education, your traditions depending on where you are located.

Here in the US we have all but stopped showering together after gym class. So that "norm" is no more. young people aren't used to getting naked with their friends / mates. The gyms have almost all installed "private" shower stalls. The last generation to be comfortable naked is getting older and sorry to say dying off.

I go to the same gym here in the US... 2 locations that are about 40K apart. In one location it tends to be an older crowd and guys will walk from the shower to the towel rack naked etc. That practice has been assimilated by the younger crowd as well. Some hit the hot tub naked. However in the other location...there's a much younger crowd thats never experienced or been "exposed" to it being ok to be naked in a locker room. It's towel dances all around...guys ducking back into a wet shower stall to change etc. It's just not culturally "normal" for them to be naked.

Looking forward to being back in Germany / Austria this Spring.
 
Lots of theories here.... but it all comes down to your "culture".

By culture I mean...your environment, your education, your traditions depending on where you are located.

Here in the US we have all but stopped showering together after gym class. So that "norm" is no more. young people aren't used to getting naked with their friends / mates. The gyms have almost all installed "private" shower stalls. The last generation to be comfortable naked is getting older and sorry to say dying off.

I go to the same gym here in the US... 2 locations that are about 40K apart. In one location it tends to be an older crowd and guys will walk from the shower to the towel rack naked etc. That practice has been assimilated by the younger crowd as well. Some hit the hot tub naked. However in the other location...there's a much younger crowd thats never experienced or been "exposed" to it being ok to be naked in a locker room. It's towel dances all around...guys ducking back into a wet shower stall to change etc. It's just not culturally "normal" for them to be naked.

Looking forward to being back in Germany / Austria this Spring.
why is it sorry dying off? yeah need to put a towel on
 
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I see things differently. Nudity, in itself, is not something shameful, immodest, or inherently sexual. It’s simply a natural state of being. I recognize that there are social rules and laws about nudity in public spaces, and I’m not saying people should walk around naked everywhere, but in places like nude beaches, nudist camps, kspas, locker rooms/showers, and saunas, nudity is accepted and normalized.

Also, to me, it’s unnecessary to tie nudity to exclusivity in a relationship. A partner being naked in appropriate contexts, like a nude beach, doesn’t take anything away from the relationship or make their body "less yours." That perspective comes across as possessive and overly controlling.

Nudity isn’t about sex, and it doesn’t have to provoke lust. If someone chooses to see nudity in a sexual way, that’s their prerogative, but it’s not a valid reason to impose restrictions or shame. Instead, I think it’s healthier to embrace the idea that nudity can exist outside of a sexual lens. It’s about comfort, freedom, and self-expression.
 
I see things differently. Nudity, in itself, is not something shameful, immodest, or inherently sexual. It’s simply a natural state of being. I recognize that there are social rules and laws about nudity in public spaces, and I’m not saying people should walk around naked everywhere, but in places like nude beaches, nudist camps, kspas, locker rooms/showers, and saunas, nudity is accepted and normalized.

Also, to me, it’s unnecessary to tie nudity to exclusivity in a relationship. A partner being naked in appropriate contexts, like a nude beach, doesn’t take anything away from the relationship or make their body "less yours." That perspective comes across as possessive and overly controlling.

Nudity isn’t about sex, and it doesn’t have to provoke lust. If someone chooses to see nudity in a sexual way, that’s their prerogative, but it’s not a valid reason to impose restrictions or shame. Instead, I think it’s healthier to embrace the idea that nudity can exist outside of a sexual lens. It’s about comfort, freedom, and self-expression.
so you would be okay if you got naked in front of your young nephew niece cousins??


for comfort freedom and self expression?
 
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so you would be okay if you got naked in front of your young nephew niece cousins??


for comfort freedom and self expression?
My Uncles, grandfathers, cousins etc had no problem getting naked in front of us boys. They were naked with their friends when swimming etc. I went on trips with my dad and some of his friends and none were shy about being nude in front of me. It just was not considered wrong.
 
My Uncles, grandfathers, cousins etc had no problem getting naked in front of us boys. They were naked with their friends when swimming etc. I went on trips with my dad and some of his friends and none were shy about being nude in front of me. It just was not considered wrong.
i am saying the girls too not just the guys.
 
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so you would be okay if you got naked in front of your young nephew niece cousins??


for comfort freedom and self expression?
So what about nudist families and nudist communities where everyone is naked, including their kids? What about indigenous cultures where whole tribes or communities don't wear clothes? Are they wrong?

Nudity is sexual if your context is sexual, if your intentions are sexual, or if you decide to expose yourself to other people who are not consenting to that or are not expecting nudity and you force it.

If you teach people that nudity is immoral, shameful, or purely sexual, that’s how they will see it. However, if you don’t, they’ll see it as natural and won’t be negatively affected, traumatized, or harmed by the sight of a naked body.
 
So what about nudist families and nudist communities where everyone is naked, including their kids? What about indigenous cultures where whole tribes or communities don't wear clothes? Are they wrong?

Nudity is sexual if your context is sexual, if your intentions are sexual, or if you decide to expose yourself to other people who are not consenting to that or are not expecting nudity and you force it.

If you teach people that nudity is immoral, shameful, or purely sexual, that’s how they will see it. However, if you don’t, they’ll see it as natural and won’t be negatively affected, traumatized, or harmed by the sight of a naked body.
i wa traumatized seeing people naked dear god!

what natural is for us to wear clothes not to go out in the woods and get naked for freedom
 
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The Generation that was comfortable being naked, raised with showering after gym class together is dying...headed to the cemetery.
thank god! unless its sexual no need to see someone naked guys were forced to get naked why because boys had too to be become more confident bullshit
 
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thank god! unless its sexual no need to see someone naked guys were forced to get naked why because boys had too to be become more confident bullshit
Question: so for you, nudity is just sexual? Do you believe that the body should always be covered in front of others unless for having sex? Do you think that the naked body is wrong or something to be ashamed?
 
Question: so for you, nudity is just sexual? Do you believe that the body should always be covered in front of others unless for having sex? Do you think that the naked body is wrong or something to be ashamed?
no the body isnt be shamed or anything like that. but we need modesty and it isnt there. you saying you would walk butt naked in front of tons of people naked for self expression at a family reunion??!?!?
 
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I didn’t say that—it’s different; what you described seems more like exhibitionism. For me, there’s nothing wrong with being naked around others who have also chosen to be nude in a natural setting, like at a nude beach or a coed sauna. Also, for me, it's totally normal to go and take a shower with other dudes, or to a locker room and be naked with other guys. I grew up in a very open family, I used to shower with my dad and brother, cousins, etc. It was just normal. I didn't grow up thinking that nudity was something bad or that seeing someone naked was something to get traumatized. And yes, growing up that way has made me more confident in my body. It’s given me a healthier self-image and a greater sense of confidence overall.
 
no the body isnt be shamed or anything like that. but we need modesty and it isnt there. you saying you would walk butt naked in front of tons of people naked for self expression at a family reunion??!?!?

Why do we need modesty?

Isn't that a human/religious construct? In our totally natural state, we - like every other creature on earth - would be completely naked.
 
I didn’t say that—it’s different; what you described seems more like exhibitionism. For me, there’s nothing wrong with being naked around others who have also chosen to be nude in a natural setting, like at a nude beach or a coed sauna. Also, for me, it's totally normal to go and take a shower with other dudes, or to a locker room and be naked with other guys. I grew up in a very open family, I used to shower with my dad and brother, cousins, etc. It was just normal. I didn't grow up thinking that nudity was something bad or that seeing someone naked was something to get traumatized. And yes, growing up that way has made me more confident in my body. It’s given me a healthier self-image and a greater sense of confidence overall.
how the heck was it confidence? how old are you healthier self confidence doesnt come from being naked
 
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Why do we need modesty?

Isn't that a human/religious construct? In our totally natural state, we - like every other creature on earth - would be completely naked.
oh because we dont do well in cold hot weather we are not raccoons that have fur or camels that can store water
 
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