Not upset. I have no skin in this. I just find it odd that (sometimes) people (some, not all), would rather jump through burning hoops to label themselves as one thing, which has meant something different for centuries, rather than a term commonly used that fits their situation better. I’m not going to get mad being called a cis male, the shoe fits. If it didn’t, I’d look and see if there is something that more closely aligns with me, rather than try to alter language and common definitions of terms.
I totally agree with you. However I find it a bit curious that you may not see the other side of the coin. How other people who have our exact thinking/logic also have different reasons and conclusions and applied in a warped way.
What I mean is, I also don't like when people dont admit to just saying they are bisexual when they are literally seeking out and enjoying sex with both men and women constantly.
But I simultaneously don't like that some others who are in agreement with me, will also say that if a man masturbates with another man in the room once or maybe even once every 10 years is now bisexual.
That's asinine. The purity testing and such rigidity does not work in real life! We all are susceptible to black or white binary thinking. We make shortcuts and assumption in our minds with such thinking and tyy to put things in neat boxes. But life is messy, chaotic, misshapen. It doesn't neatly fit.
I just wanted to know of you thought I was bisexual because I am now "one of those people" in Lukesilver eyes according to his logic and you mostly agreed with him previously not necessarily on this matter.
I can see you dont really care that much and sorry to push the issue. I agree with you though that if more bisexual men applied the label it may not be stigmatized as much! Its just the same people who are pushing for others to use the label are doing so for different reasons and logical deductions.