Male Bisexuality Acceptance

After reading this I realized half of y'all guys really need to end your marriages and just be single
At some point it ain't that easy. Many become bi later in life. After the marriage, the life built, the home, the kids, and the joint finances.
 
That's why I'm never getting married, not that I plan on cheating, I just don't think I can pick.
 
I get the impression younger blokes now are much cooler with being heteroflexible or straightish.

but lots of older men vigorously maintain a sense of black and white brightline dual either gay or str8. They seem to defend that position so passionately that it seems to me their whole world depends on it. No grey. Only clear division like gay is some different species.

psychologically there has to be some reason for their world view depending on that binary clarity.
i am 57 years old. o love the shape, smell ,look, and taste OF A WOMAN.......... buttt i love to see thick girthy penis, want to experiance one in my ass, AND i want to swallow a load of cum........... AM I GAY ????? NO. do i care what anyone thinks about me, NOOOOOOOO........ your likes, pleasures, desires, and fantasies can CHANGE.............. there is nothing WRONG with that for ANYONE male, or female........................ IF anyone wants to be CHILDISHLY STUPID, and try to label me, GO THE HELL AHEAD......... ITS A FREE COUNTRY.......
 
At some point it ain't that easy. Many become bi later in life. After the marriage, the life built, the home, the kids, and the joint finances.
actually IT IS EASY, if you are honest with yourself, and do not shame yourself........ NOTHING in this world stays the same...... that also goes for peoples interests, and fantasies......... if people want to live in stone age thought, GO THE HELL AHEAD !!!!!!! you are entitled to your opinion........... i like to see pictures of thick penis, am i fucked up in the head because i like that now???????? am i now labeled GAY because of that............ I DONT GIVE A FUCK.......................... its no ones business what my personal thoughts, fantasies and actions are....... if i was married, that would be MY OWN PERSONAL decision on how to handle the situation my friend................. EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT......... some go strictly by the bible....... as long as you dont get in my face with your own opinion, go ahead YAP all you want........... if you get in my face i WILL knock you on your ass and put a hurting on you...... call your attorney, i dont give a damm......
 
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actually IT IS EASY, if you are honest with yourself, and do not shame yourself........ NOTHING in this world stays the same...... that also goes for peoples interests, and fantasies......... if people want to live in stone age thought, GO THE HELL AHEAD !!!!!!! you are entitled to your opinion........... i like to see pictures of thick penis, am i fucked up in the head because i like that now???????? am i now labeled GAY because of that............ I DONT GIVE A FUCK.......................... its no ones business what my personal thoughts, fantasies and actions are....... if i was married, that would be MY OWN PERSONAL decision on how to handle the situation my friend................. EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT......... some go strictly by the bible....... as long as you dont get in my face with your own opinion, go ahead YAP all you want........... if you get in my face i WILL knock you on your ass and put a hurting on you...... call your attorney, i dont give a damm......
Well... Ringing in the New Year are we..?
 
Well many cheat on their wives or others force them to open the marriage.
do you realize THIS HAPPENS regardless of sexual orientation......... what you are trying to address are CHARACTER ISSUES of individuals, might not have ANYTHING to do with sex at all...............think about that..... ISSUES in one's life CAN muddy any waters......... BEST ADVICE for anyone with problems , speak with your personal doctor to get you a great recommendation for a good PSYCOLOGIST............THATS who needs to give advice on any and all personal issues..... NOT YOU OR I.......... this might be a thread, BUT all kinds of people in all kinds of situations read this stuff................ ourselves and ANY CLERGY need to stay OUT and clear of other peoples issues........ this is the great downside to the internet and electronic media...... help comes from REAL PEOPLE in the flesh, NOT the internet..........
 
No idea how i got here, and God I wish I didn't, but just got to mention that the cheating men on here will soon show all those people who turned them down for being bi and anyone else who said they were promiscuous, how great it actually is to date bisexual men! You tell them! You see you non bisexual people who are reading along, these guys don't tell you about the cheating, as they are trying to save your feelings from getting hurt. How considerate. Husbands should maybe worry a little bit more about their wives rather than just hurting their feelings. Destroying and humiliating would better suited. Well done, guys. Every day I pray, I wake up a lesbian. Maybe tonight will be the night🤞, after reading these horror stories. Hopefully, the cheaters aren't getting any, as their wives are too tired from having sex with their friends.

Here's a massive tip..
Put in the same amount of effort and time that you spend organising your little fuckbud seshes with your husbands and finding each others prostates, and put it into finding your wife's gspot As I can guarantee that if you don't, someone else will. (Hopefully they are 🤞.)

Or tell her you need to look elsewhere if she's not playing, or go to therapy, or best advice yet would be to leave! These "just sex" sessions mean more to you than you guys are letting on. The fact that you bond and spend time is enough to generate feelings. If your wives started her libido back up and it was 8 times a day, non stop and whatever way you wanted, I can put my life on it that you would still meet the boys for your bonding sessions. It's too late, as you both are invested, and have built up the excitement with the taboo aspect in your heads so much to a point where nothing competes with it. But the biggest telling is that your willing to risk your partners heart for a quick romp, which is selfish and cruel and a little sociopathic. Just admit it to her or let her be a part of the decision-making with something that will impact her life! Inconsiderate arseholes make me angry. Anytime I think I can understand the whole dynamic, I end up finding more and more "poor me!" posts. Every reddit post is nearly bi men asking to cheat on the DL or whining because they've come out as bi to their wives, and they'll not let them play with the boys! 🤣 What world do you live in? 😄 A very selfish one, it looks like. Just leave. I promise you she'll get over it, and will then be finially happy with another man who will teach her what true love is and make her realise why you both didn't work. She can start enjoying being in a relationship with intimacy that she looks forward to, and having exciting sex regularly. As will you. Do it whilst she still has time to find true happiness, and not be stuck settled with you. If she does go, then don't date women long term again. You're not cut out for the task in having sex with us in a way that we can actually enjoy, nor communicating well with us.

Get off the Internet maybe and touch grass!!

To all the bi men who are not selfish or unfaithful, I commend you. You just keep up the bi image on your end!
 
No idea how i got here, and God I wish I didn't, but just got to mention that the cheating men on here will soon show all those people who turned them down for being bi and anyone else who said they were promiscuous, how great it actually is to date bisexual men! You tell them! You see you non bisexual people who are reading along, these guys don't tell you about the cheating, as they are trying to save your feelings from getting hurt. How considerate. Husbands should maybe worry a little bit more about their wives rather than just hurting their feelings. Destroying and humiliating would better suited. Well done, guys. Every day I pray, I wake up a lesbian. Maybe tonight will be the night🤞, after reading these horror stories. Hopefully, the cheaters aren't getting any, as their wives are too tired from having sex with their friends.

Here's a massive tip..
Put in the same amount of effort and time that you spend organising your little fuckbud seshes with your husbands and finding each others prostates, and put it into finding your wife's gspot As I can guarantee that if you don't, someone else will. (Hopefully they are 🤞.)

Or tell her you need to look elsewhere if she's not playing, or go to therapy, or best advice yet would be to leave! These "just sex" sessions mean more to you than you guys are letting on. The fact that you bond and spend time is enough to generate feelings. If your wives started her libido back up and it was 8 times a day, non stop and whatever way you wanted, I can put my life on it that you would still meet the boys for your bonding sessions. It's too late, as you both are invested, and have built up the excitement with the taboo aspect in your heads so much to a point where nothing competes with it. But the biggest telling is that your willing to risk your partners heart for a quick romp, which is selfish and cruel and a little sociopathic. Just admit it to her or let her be a part of the decision-making with something that will impact her life! Inconsiderate arseholes make me angry. Anytime I think I can understand the whole dynamic, I end up finding more and more "poor me!" posts. Every reddit post is nearly bi men asking to cheat on the DL or whining because they've come out as bi to their wives, and they'll not let them play with the boys! 🤣 What world do you live in? 😄 A very selfish one, it looks like. Just leave. I promise you she'll get over it, and will then be finially happy with another man who will teach her what true love is and make her realise why you both didn't work. She can start enjoying being in a relationship with intimacy that she looks forward to, and having exciting sex regularly. As will you. Do it whilst she still has time to find true happiness, and not be stuck settled with you. If she does go, then don't date women long term again. You're not cut out for the task in having sex with us in a way that we can actually enjoy, nor communicating well with us.

Get off the Internet maybe and touch grass!!

To all the bi men who are not selfish or unfaithful, I commend you. You just keep up the bi image on your end!
These bi guys don't care and wonder why straight and bi women don't want to date bi men. Similar to gay men. I'm sorry you stumbled on here and I hope your man isn't like a closet bisexual
 
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These bi guys don't care and wonder why straight and bi women don't want to date bi men. Similar to gay men. I'm sorry you stumbled on here and I hope your man isn't like a closet bisexual


Naw. I wish he would as he'd maybe leave the house more. He's like a horny jack Russel on my leg.

I'm biased as my best friend dated a bi man? and he cheated on her with 1 woman (kiss) which came out later, and his gay best friend (sex). It was the classic movie that we all see. He was a handsome jock type guy, who said he was straight. He was crazy in love with her and i could see how he touched her and looked at her, so I know he liked her. His gay best friend liked him also, and I think he always offered himself up and made it clear to him what could happen if he wanted it. One night with some alcohol, he took the chance and his gay friend couldn't wait to tell his GF the next day. All hell broke loose. I held her in her bathroom as she collapsed into my arms and sobbed. She was beautiful but she was delicate. Her childhood was on par with mine, in a way that it was ruined by drig addicted adults who should have known better. So she was insecure and relied on him for her happiness. He knew this though and still wanted ber. Long story short, she went back and forth with a lot of tears and heart wrenching calls to each other, but she couldn't forget. She said the whispers from others in the shops or street, were the worst. She thought she looked like a fool because everyone said he was gay (they didn't) and yet she didn't see anything. She just became a shell of herself and tried to take her life lots of times. He was sorry I beleive but he still done it. I don't beleive it was the first rime either. I think they maybe hooked up before his relationship. But he moved away after it but I do beleive it shook him up a but losing her. My friend was supermodel material and he was ok looking but he knew he was punching. With her childhood she was humble and it made us look for ghe funny side with any bad things we went through. I just could feel every part of her that was breaking and I can't forget or get that image out if my head. I think it's good that we try and learn and share our differences at times but sometimes lufe reminds you that you need to beselfish once in a whole.
 
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No idea how i got here, and God I wish I didn't, but just got to mention that the cheating men on here will soon show all those people who turned them down for being bi and anyone else who said they were promiscuous, how great it actually is to date bisexual men! You tell them! You see you non bisexual people who are reading along, these guys don't tell you about the cheating, as they are trying to save your feelings from getting hurt. How considerate. Husbands should maybe worry a little bit more about their wives rather than just hurting their feelings. Destroying and humiliating would better suited. Well done, guys. Every day I pray, I wake up a lesbian. Maybe tonight will be the night🤞, after reading these horror stories. Hopefully, the cheaters aren't getting any, as their wives are too tired from having sex with their friends.

Here's a massive tip..
Put in the same amount of effort and time that you spend organising your little fuckbud seshes with your husbands and finding each others prostates, and put it into finding your wife's gspot As I can guarantee that if you don't, someone else will. (Hopefully they are 🤞.)

Or tell her you need to look elsewhere if she's not playing, or go to therapy, or best advice yet would be to leave! These "just sex" sessions mean more to you than you guys are letting on. The fact that you bond and spend time is enough to generate feelings. If your wives started her libido back up and it was 8 times a day, non stop and whatever way you wanted, I can put my life on it that you would still meet the boys for your bonding sessions. It's too late, as you both are invested, and have built up the excitement with the taboo aspect in your heads so much to a point where nothing competes with it. But the biggest telling is that your willing to risk your partners heart for a quick romp, which is selfish and cruel and a little sociopathic. Just admit it to her or let her be a part of the decision-making with something that will impact her life! Inconsiderate arseholes make me angry. Anytime I think I can understand the whole dynamic, I end up finding more and more "poor me!" posts. Every reddit post is nearly bi men asking to cheat on the DL or whining because they've come out as bi to their wives, and they'll not let them play with the boys! 🤣 What world do you live in? 😄 A very selfish one, it looks like. Just leave. I promise you she'll get over it, and will then be finially happy with another man who will teach her what true love is and make her realise why you both didn't work. She can start enjoying being in a relationship with intimacy that she looks forward to, and having exciting sex regularly. As will you. Do it whilst she still has time to find true happiness, and not be stuck settled with you. If she does go, then don't date women long term again. You're not cut out for the task in having sex with us in a way that we can actually enjoy, nor communicating well with us.

Get off the Internet maybe and touch grass!!

To all the bi men who are not selfish or unfaithful, I commend you. You just keep up the bi image on your end!
So you are not bisexual?
 
At some point it ain't that easy. Many become bi later in life. After the marriage, the life built, the home, the kids, and the joint finances.
This is exactly the situation that my fuckbuddy is in. I knew this going into the FWB relationship with him. I have never had an issue and I respect his choices. We meet about once a month, hookup, fuck and then go our seperate ways. His wife lost interest in sex years ago but he still loves her and his family. He however has sexual needs and doesnt want to be with another woman. So in many ways Im just an easy convenient sexual outlet for him, without any issues, dramas or complications. Im not only totally fine with our arrangement, I am happy and satisfied. We have been hooking up for several years, its purely a physical carnal relationship. Sure we have intimate moments together and at times the sex can border on "love making" but neither of us want a personal relationship with the other.
 
Yep exactly this people are pushed into a straight relationship, you’re told leave school, get a job, find a wife have kids. But in reality a person may be Bi but it’s easier living that straight lifestyle until a change when getting older makes it harder to stay in that straight relationship. People know it’s going to be a hard transition of telling everyone you’re now Gay, hurting friends and family stop a lot of people moving on which is why men do have FWB and hookups.
 
This is exactly the situation that my fuckbuddy is in. I knew this going into the FWB relationship with him. I have never had an issue and I respect his choices. We meet about once a month, hookup, fuck and then go our seperate ways. His wife lost interest in sex years ago but he still loves her and his family. He however has sexual needs and doesnt want to be with another woman. So in many ways Im just an easy convenient sexual outlet for him, without any issues, dramas or complications. Im not only totally fine with our arrangement, I am happy and satisfied. We have been hooking up for several years, its purely a physical carnal relationship. Sure we have intimate moments together and at times the sex can border on "love making" but neither of us want a personal relationship with the other.
I have a feeling you do want him
 
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Yep exactly this people are pushed into a straight relationship, you’re told leave school, get a job, find a wife have kids. But in reality a person may be Bi but it’s easier living that straight lifestyle until a change when getting older makes it harder to stay in that straight relationship. People know it’s going to be a hard transition of telling everyone you’re now Gay, hurting friends and family stop a lot of people moving on which is why men do have FWB and hookups.
Most bi guys do it during their marriage with women and wonder why women don't trust bi men
 
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