Male Bisexuality Acceptance
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Yep. Gen X too.
agree with you - butt what a strange distinction. That shows the ignorance and prejudice. What about vers guys. I like it both ways. I don’t see anything less masculine about taking than giving. It’s a mutual thing for me. MM sex is very “masculine”. If women think that way they simply don’t understand
- bi2,
Have to agree a lot with this statement. Bi sex, is like what you said, helping a friend out.
If ever I have stayed around afterwards or for a few days at my fuckbuddy's place, whenever he asks for sex, I never not once ever said no. Credit to him also for choosing the right time of course, but because he does pick his moments, I naturally reciprocate back always. With anal sex, he knows of course that I need to be "ready" to take one the back lol so he knows when Im usually ready for it, however with oral sex Im open 24/7 so to speak.
Being submissive and enjoying being this way with him, I respect that he has needs and urges and Im always happy to strip down naked and suck on him when he feels like sex, either while he is resting, having a drink watching TV or reading the paper. I think Im being a kind generous and thoughtful partner from my point of view.
I never seen it as a big deal. Which is a huge difference with MF sex, because some women make out that performing oral naked on their knees is degrading and or they deserved to be made feel special or appreciated. I would say thats the big difference between MM sex among two bi guys compared to MF sex.
- bi2,
I cant speak about all bi guys only in my limited experiences. With my fuckbuddy, he definitely has all the power,control, dominance and authority the moment we are alone. For me at least, I not only not have a problem with it, I welcome it and appreciate it. We hook up to fuck, I enjoy being a submissive feminine bottom, so naturally I have certain role to undertake which I enjoy. His orgasms are fuelled by being in total control and being an aggressive dominant bottom. This is what he likes, I like and what we both want.
While we are both only interested in purely a physical relationship, outside of sex, I find him very kind, caring considerate and sweet towards me. I presume this is a result of him taking a very dominant masculine protecting role and myself being feminine and submissive with him. At the end of the day, we like and enjoy our relationshop and the dynamics of it. Its not for everyone but it works for us.
- bi2,
Younger women are accepting of it more so as long as it doesnt involve them or their partner.
So from my point of view there is no point in discussing the issue with them, especially as I am not serious with any of them.
That’s great. I constantly marvel how we all seem to find a match. The key is not to be hung up of “appearances“. I have cocksuckers who just love dick - and dont want to be fucked. They love me giving them an opportunity to drain me - I clearly love that. There’s nothing unequal about that ” relationship’ if thats what you like to call it. I have a fuck buddy who doesn’t see other men - but likes to hear about my adventures.
it all seems to work and it finds a level. none of these dudes in my sex life is there without being an autonomous adult who chooses to be there - including me. We all get something out of it that we want - and those things are different for each. The common theme i would guess is that we like to get off, and we are very tolerant of what makes each other blow.
As a married man who has played with fellas for many years, but does more and more in recent years, I came to man-sex as a novice exploring - I have always found gay men very respectful of my boundaries as they existed at that time. Ive never been forced or guilted or had them get angry with me. I was always worried that i might be some tease who was there under false pretences because i was not ‘ fully into gay sex’ but quite the opposite. I have met nothing but tolerance and acceptance for where I am at, and respect. i am very greatful to the many great men I have enjoyed the company of over the years.
a lot of Jizz under the bridge now - but all worth it.
Not every gay man is into fucking or getting fucked most just like like sucking wanking far more.
unfortunately it’s not as easy fucking someone’s ass to fucking a pussy, an ass needs to be ready a pussy is usually open 24/7
Ha - pussy is open 24/7…. You’ve never met my wife
I came out to my wife and before that she was really against it. Now we have so much fun and it also made our relationship much stronger.
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Have you been listening in on my marriage? This is exactly what I am dealing with right now and struggle with how to deal. I go through days of depression trying to cope with a housemate and needing sexual release. I have told her my hand is tired and get a reaction like it isn’t her problem. Bloke interaction doesn’t lead me to feel guilt.
- bi2,
My fuckbuddy's wife lost interest years ago and he didnt want to go and be with another woman, so when the opportunity arose for us through an ad he placed a few years back, we havent looked back.
I provide for him a safe, convenient, stress and drama free outlet for him to fuck without any complications.
This is so not true! Cumming and helping another guy cum is the best thing a man can experience!!!!
Possibly the least gay description of gay sex I've ever heard lol. Certainly interesting
In a sense I don’t think it’s “gay”. Gay sex is very masculine and manly. If that makes sense. It’s what blokes do.
but yes. I have also had very loving and sensitive romantic sex with a man and that may be gay. However, and awful lot of man sex I’ve had has been a mutual convenience of a relief with lots of laughs and a beer afterwards. Or just nod and off to carry on the day. Sex with women (for me at least) has ALWAYS been way more involved and psychologically complex. Relationship based and involving nuanced mating rituals. Hence I see the two as practically speaking quite different.
I do think a lot of men are Bi but they stick to what society thinks is correct a male female relationship just because it’s easier than saying your bi, I think a lot of younger men are bi but go into a straight relationship where most are unhappy with the usual straight sex, fucking the same pussy time after time. Men get bored of that, gay sex is so much more fun in my opinion and you can change it up by bottoming or topping.
Its funny how some gay men deny male bisexuality while bisexuals vastly outnumber gays lol.
Well I think it comes down to ignorance. They either think bisexuals are lying straight men or lying gay men. So these numbers wouldn't matter to them. They don't ultimately care about truth.
I think they are too afraid and closed minded like they cant imagine stereotypically "straight" guy enjoying guys as well as "gay " guy enjoying women.
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