pissing in urinals help and advice

[deleted24837951]

Hi, i am a bro in his 20's who am very pee shy in urinals. I never use them but I feel like if I want to be a man I need to suck it up and take a real man piss with my cock out in public at the urinals. I am looking for encouragment and advice. pics and vids are nice. I love to hear form simliar bros in age and how they overcame it or if they are confident with it.
I also dont mind alittle humiliation.
do you pull your pants all the way down or just whip it out? how far back do you stand. is it okey to look? all men are welcome to discuss but i prefer alpha men and men around my age.
I live in Sweden.

 

[deleted4392491]

I was shy too in my early 20’s. One thing I did was waited until I was about to explode before going to the bathroom. That way I knew I wouldn’t have trouble getting the flow started!

I used to kind of hide myself, by mid 20’s I was comfortable though. I started whipping it out and keeping my hands on my hips. I’ve seen some people look at me, but I don’t think I’ve ever tried to look.

You’ll definitely get there, trust me!

Me at work the other day:

 

[deleted23476111]

Hi, i am a bro in his 20's who am very pee shy in urinals. I never use them but I feel like if I want to be a man I need to suck it up and take a real man piss with my cock out in public at the urinals. I am looking for encouragment and advice. pics and vids are nice. I love to hear form simliar bros in age and how they overcame it or if they are confident with it.
I also dont mind alittle humiliation.
do you pull your pants all the way down or just whip it out? how far back do you stand. is it okey to look? all men are welcome to discuss but i prefer alpha men and men around my age.
I live in Sweden.

hey bro, 22 yo here, I’ve always been shy in urinals and used to hide myself. I wanted to overcome my awkwardness so I looked at the situation from the other aspect. I enjoy looking at cocks and I actually like showing mine too, so I started openly showing off in the urinals and openly staring at other guys’ cocks. That’s where I feel like a real man with a prominent manhood, sometimes I whip it all while having a semi hard or even a boner, because who cares? I tend to stay quite away from the urinal so everyone who’s willing to see it could have a view. When I feel like it I may groan or moan while having a pee, as if it’s a release after holding it for a long time. Man, I hope you’ll overcome your shyness, go take a piss like a real man!

 

[deleted24837951]

hey bro, 22 yo here, I’ve always been shy in urinals and used to hide myself. I wanted to overcome my awkwardness so I looked at the situation from the other aspect. I enjoy looking at cocks and I actually like showing mine too, so I started openly showing off in the urinals and openly staring at other guys’ cocks. That’s where I feel like a real man with a prominent manhood, sometimes I whip it all while having a semi hard or even a boner, because who cares? I tend to stay quite away from the urinal so everyone who’s willing to see it could have a view. When I feel like it I may groan or moan while having a pee, as if it’s a release after holding it for a long time. Man, I hope you’ll overcome your shyness, go take a piss like a real man!

wow nice bro! how far back is okey to stand?

 

[Jake1973]

wow nice bro! how far back is okey to stand?

For the next guy coming in, close enough that it doesn't land on the floor please.

 

[ottosafado]

My only shame is farting while I piss. that would be embarrassing.

But if you want help. start using open door cabins. then go to the urinal.

 

[thickcockjames]

I used to have difficulty peeing in urinals. When I pee, I usually pee for a long time...like its common for it to take close to a minute. Oddly enough, whenever I'd be in a public bathroom and had to use a urinal I'd be self conscious about how long I was taking.

At a certain point, I realized no one really pays that much attention to other people in the world, so I got over it.

Advice would be to just try and relax.

 

[headbang8]

…at a certain point, I realized no one really pays that much attention to other people in the world, so I got over it.

Ditto. If the OP begins to enjoy the fact that nobody really cares, he will be fine.

 

[onesmallone]

Hi, i am a bro in his 20's who am very pee shy in urinals. I never use them but I feel like if I want to be a man I need to suck it up and take a real man piss with my cock out in public at the urinals. I am looking for encouragment and advice. pics and vids are nice. I love to hear form simliar bros in age and how they overcame it or if they are confident with it.
I also dont mind alittle humiliation.
do you pull your pants all the way down or just whip it out? how far back do you stand. is it okey to look? all men are welcome to discuss but i prefer alpha men and men around my age.
I live in Sweden.

I have never been really shy about urinals. If you don't want to be seen you can do that easily. I on the other hand like to be seen. I have a very small penis and still I stand far back and at an angle so anyone can easily see it. I get a lot of guys in the urinal next to me with big smiles. Must be feeling good about themselves. I try to look but do not have much luck seeing anything. I miss the old days when we had big circular urinals where everyone faced each other and peed.

 

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[Firelight321]

I just put my fly down. Never had problems with it. Maybe because i partly grew up at a farm where its normal to piss next each other

 

[curvy one]

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A real shower stream as I have too.
Sometimes, the stream also splits a bit

 

[Jon1971]

I've been pee shy my whole life, I guess because I don't have any brothers, it's just not something I grew up with. I'm getting better, and working on it. If I'm already started I'm okay if someone walks in, but getting started with someone there is a challenge unless I load up on iced tea and I am about to burst.

I think posting dick pics here has helped me become more comfortable with it too.

 

[lapdog2001]

Hi, i am a bro in his 20's who am very pee shy in urinals.

I love to hear form similar bros in age and how they overcame it or if they are confident with it.

I used to get pee shy sometimes, loooong ago. I heard somewhere that the shyness and the act of peeing are a left-brain/right-brain thing, so occupying your brain with another task allows the pee to flow freely.

This was the advice, and it has worked for me 100% of the time when I have used it:
Do some hard math in your head. No 2 + 2 or 10 - 4 stuff, but 234 divided by 8 or whatever numbers come to mind. When you start to concentrate on actually solving the problem in your head, you will likely start peeing. This technique has worked for me whenever I have had to use it

 

[droopyboy]

I was shy too in my early 20’s. One thing I did was waited until I was about to explode before going to the bathroom. That way I knew I wouldn’t have trouble getting the flow started!

I used to kind of hide myself, by mid 20’s I was comfortable though. I started whipping it out and keeping my hands on my hips. I’ve seen some people look at me, but I don’t think I’ve ever tried to look.

You’ll definitely get there, trust me!

Me at work the other day:

Handsome boy...mmm

 

[deleted26037581]

I’m not per shy, but I do find it harder to piss when I’m horny at the urinal.

 

[londonredhead]

Spent a few months drinking lots of water while out to get over my pissing at urinals phobia. I then had to go so it made me use urinals. It's great when you overcome it. Nothing beats pissing with your dick and balls out in public. Even better if it's a trough urinal. Lots of advice online if needed.

 

[chrisrobin]

However you piss make sure you stand close enough to avoid staining your shoes! All very well standing back showing to the world your weapon but walking out with spattered shoes is a no-no.

 

[Martex]

Hi, i am a bro in his 20's who am very pee shy in urinals. I never use them but I feel like if I want to be a man I need to suck it up and take a real man piss with my cock out in public at the urinals. I am looking for encouragment and advice. pics and vids are nice. I love to hear form simliar bros in age and how they overcame it or if they are confident with it.
I also dont mind alittle humiliation.
do you pull your pants all the way down or just whip it out? how far back do you stand. is it okey to look? all men are welcome to discuss but i prefer alpha men and men around my age.
I live in Sweden.

I'm not at all shy at a urinal, but was teased a lot for my small Asian penis growing up. I used to use my hands to try to hide my penis like in the 1st pic. I now piss like the 2nd pic. I always stand back a ways; I put out a thick, heavy piss stream, so all the spray back & splashbacks tends to get back on me. I know I'm probably watched a lot, but it doesn't bother me all.

 

[lapdog2001]

I am based in Australia. 36 Gay man and I can probably count the times I've used a urinal in my life on one hand. I am very much pee shy and never understood why. I need to work up the courage to use a Urinal as it saves time waiting for a cubicle. What's interesting is even when I am in a cubicle and someone is in the one next to me, I still struggle to get started. I really not sure what the problem is.

This has worked 100% of the time for me on those rare occasions where I am pee shy:

Try doing hard math in your head, like 167 divided by 9, etc. Suppositively it's a left-brain/right-brain thing and concentrating on math allows your bladder to relax and the urine to flow.