Mine is really not that exceptional and I suppose my close friends know as we have a sauna culture and we see each other naked at least at some point every year. Flaccid out of a cold lake we all look very small, some more so than others. In the heat we hang low. Flaccid/fluffed I'd say we are around the same size (I'm considering five other guys I grew up with, three Swedes, a Norwegian, and an Iranian). As for gay friends... well, I've had show and tells with most of them.