Has any woman on this site ever had a sudden change of heart about sleeping with someone new just as you two were about to get nekkid and have sex? Because about a month ago I was on second date with a woman who had contacted me on pof, and the first date went very weel and we got along swimmingly, then two weeks later we met again this time closer to my place as I live in the suburbs and her in the city.
I went to pick her up and we stopped at a pool bar in my area that is the place to go hang out come the weekend, and we had a few drinks and talked and we were really getting along great, I was making her laugh and she was smiling, reached over to touch my shoulder now and then and gave me other signals that she was seemingly interested in me physically.
So, I eventually asked her is she wanted to go back to my place and watch a movie and smoke a joint together which she told me she enjoys partaking in on weekends as I do. So off we went and I figured hey lets watch something funny so I suggested a Russell Peters stand up routine of his that is hilarious and so we started watching that together.
Then things got weird, first she asked me out of the blue if I had ever messed around with a guy before, and I was stunned by the question as no one has ever asked me that before, anyway I told her no but that I have been propositioned several times including having been offered money on several occasions too, all of which I declined.
Then she asked me well why would a man offer you money for sex? I was trying to play it cool beforehand but at this point I figured might as well give her a hint about what I have to work with below the belt and I told her well just like women`s breasts come in all shapes and sizes, men come in different sizes as well and gave her a wolfish smile and waited for her reaction.
She smiled and said so you are a big then? And I said well how about you find out for yourself and at that point I asked her to sit on me so she could feel for herself, and seemingly the moment she sat on top of me and I laid my hands on her she asked me to stop and said she was having a panic attack of sorts, which was a load of bs but I said sure no problem.
Anyway I lit up a cig and offered her one as well, told her not to worry about it and lets just kick back and watch tv, and then a few minutes later she goes to the bathroom and when she comes out she says I think I should go hom now, and at this point I am like "wtf?!" how come?
She says she is having a badtrip from the weed we smoked and that she wants to go home, so I try talking to her to find out what is going on here. So I try to cheer her up and make her smile, try to reassure her but it was all for naught as she completely shut down on me mentally and physically, and finally after about 15 minutes I realised there is absolutely nothing I can say or do to turn things around and at that point I throw in the towel and drove her home.
Now my question to the ladies on this here forum is, have you ever done something similar and if so what made you suddenly have a change of heart about sleeping with a man who you had otherwise just spent a very fun-filled evening with? Because honestly I have never felt so rejected or embarassed in my entire life and this has completely ruined my mojo since then, I mean for two people to get along so well outside the bedroom only to have things end in such a spectacularly fucked up fashion just boggles my mind.
Any answers or contributions to this thread would be greatly appreciated, I shall check in a bit later to see if anyone has chimed in.
I went to pick her up and we stopped at a pool bar in my area that is the place to go hang out come the weekend, and we had a few drinks and talked and we were really getting along great, I was making her laugh and she was smiling, reached over to touch my shoulder now and then and gave me other signals that she was seemingly interested in me physically.
So, I eventually asked her is she wanted to go back to my place and watch a movie and smoke a joint together which she told me she enjoys partaking in on weekends as I do. So off we went and I figured hey lets watch something funny so I suggested a Russell Peters stand up routine of his that is hilarious and so we started watching that together.
Then things got weird, first she asked me out of the blue if I had ever messed around with a guy before, and I was stunned by the question as no one has ever asked me that before, anyway I told her no but that I have been propositioned several times including having been offered money on several occasions too, all of which I declined.
Then she asked me well why would a man offer you money for sex? I was trying to play it cool beforehand but at this point I figured might as well give her a hint about what I have to work with below the belt and I told her well just like women`s breasts come in all shapes and sizes, men come in different sizes as well and gave her a wolfish smile and waited for her reaction.
She smiled and said so you are a big then? And I said well how about you find out for yourself and at that point I asked her to sit on me so she could feel for herself, and seemingly the moment she sat on top of me and I laid my hands on her she asked me to stop and said she was having a panic attack of sorts, which was a load of bs but I said sure no problem.
Anyway I lit up a cig and offered her one as well, told her not to worry about it and lets just kick back and watch tv, and then a few minutes later she goes to the bathroom and when she comes out she says I think I should go hom now, and at this point I am like "wtf?!" how come?
She says she is having a badtrip from the weed we smoked and that she wants to go home, so I try talking to her to find out what is going on here. So I try to cheer her up and make her smile, try to reassure her but it was all for naught as she completely shut down on me mentally and physically, and finally after about 15 minutes I realised there is absolutely nothing I can say or do to turn things around and at that point I throw in the towel and drove her home.
Now my question to the ladies on this here forum is, have you ever done something similar and if so what made you suddenly have a change of heart about sleeping with a man who you had otherwise just spent a very fun-filled evening with? Because honestly I have never felt so rejected or embarassed in my entire life and this has completely ruined my mojo since then, I mean for two people to get along so well outside the bedroom only to have things end in such a spectacularly fucked up fashion just boggles my mind.
Any answers or contributions to this thread would be greatly appreciated, I shall check in a bit later to see if anyone has chimed in.