How many men are actually bisexual?

[mineaminea]

Know a couple with clear tendencies that will never even think of it, also the mental gymnastics.

Definitely, even when there are no mental gymnastics and the men have admitted to themselves that they are into men, there is the excessive "joking", the dichotomy of hot and cold emotions, the "confusion", and the "curiosity", etc. There are other tactics to circumnavigate the admittance to others of being bisexual, so that the straight privilege is maintained.

Of course, we are ignoring the men who may live gay lifestyles who are degrees of bisexual as well. Those men, for differing reasons, simply state that they are gay because it is easier for them.

 

[FrankieGuile]

Just from my experience many just won't admit it or won't even consider the possibility, like I've got a long list.

So, summarizing more than people think, heck, most people don't know about me either irl.

I guess that proves it! There is no need for further investigation and inquiry based on your comprehensive personal experience, powers of logic and self-admitted deception. 100% of men are bisexual because of one of the following incontrovertible facts: 1) men who admit to being bisexual are bisexual; 2) men who don't admit to being bisexual are bisexual; and, by logical extension, 3) men who deny being bisexual and who have never had a homosexual encounter, and will never have a homosexual encounter, up to, and including, the day they die, are bisexual because they really wanted to be bisexual. You just know it, don't you.

 

[mineaminea]

I guess that proves it! There is no need for further investigation and inquiry based on your comprehensive personal experience, powers of logic and self-admitted deception. 100% of men are bisexual because of one of the following incontrovertible facts: 1) men who admit to being bisexual are bisexual; 2) men who don't admit to being bisexual are bisexual; and, by logical extension, 3) men who deny being bisexual and who have never had a homosexual encounter, and will never have a homosexual encounter, up to, and including, the day they die, are bisexual because they really wanted to be bisexual. You just know it, don't you.

Yet, he never said 100% in his statement, at any point.

 

[deleted19462351]

I guess that proves it! There is no need for further investigation and inquiry based on your comprehensive personal experience, powers of logic and self-admitted deception. 100% of men are bisexual because of one of the following incontrovertible facts: 1) men who admit to being bisexual are bisexual; 2) men who don't admit to being bisexual are bisexual; and, by logical extension, 3) men who deny being bisexual and who have never had a homosexual encounter, and will never have a homosexual encounter, up to, and including, the day they die, are bisexual because they really wanted to be bisexual. You just know it, don't you.

Got one thing to ask you, do you get any gratification of constantly arguing online with people? Like I've seen you do insane mental gymnastics just to argue with someone, not to mention twist what they say and so, ever heard of a job application ?

 

[deleted19462351]

"I know many cats" doesn't actually translate to "I know all the cats"

But I guess reading comprehension isn't your strong either.

 

[FrankieGuile]

Yet, he never said 100% in his statement, at any point.

The hyperbole I used to make a point escaped you. The use of the term "many" in, what he claims, is his personal experience, is hardly evidence that anything more than the normally reported low single digit percentage of the male population is bisexual. It's just another attempt to spin the fantasy that more men are bisexual, even though they don't yet know or know it and deny it. But, I suppose, hope springs eternal.

 

[FrankieGuile]

"I know many cats" doesn't actually translate to "I know all the cats"

But I guess reading comprehension isn't your strong either.

And the use and understanding of irony must have never been your strength. As I mentioned in another response, the use of the term "many" in, what he claims, is his personal experience, is hardly evidence that anything more than the normally reported low single digit percentage of the male population is bisexual. It's just another attempt to spin the fantasy that more men are bisexual, even though they don't yet know or know it and deny it. But, I suppose, hope springs eternal.

 

[FrankieGuile]

Got one thing to ask you, do you get any gratification of constantly arguing online with people? Like I've seen you do insane mental gymnastics just to argue with someone, not to mention twist what they say and so, ever heard of a job application ?

I get gratification from many things. One of those things is puncturing pretentious claims that are demonstrably untrue or claims that attempt to scale a person's perceived reality to everybody's reality. I am also gratified I can express myself freely, though I suspect you would put an end to that if you could. It's lazy to complain about "constantly arguing" rather than stating your case. You would do well to understand that "constantly arguing" is your characterization of someone taking a position contrary to your beliefs. Anything wrong with that?

 

[deleted19462351]

Too much free time and a bit of insanity thrown up there too from what I can see, like dude, do you read yourself? You really jump into conclusions from thin air and then write whole paragraphs of the slightest thing that bothers you, even though the user hasn't threatened you, wasn't being pretentious or claimed his experiences were the same for everyone.
Also what fantasy are you talking about? I don't like most guys anyway, even less these days, why would I want a big majority of them to be bi or gay? I literally don't give a rats ass either way and it's not lazy to ask you why are you constantly arguing with people, like what good do you get from it? Clearly it does not make you feel better, but I guess you enjoy being miserable over the opinions of people you haven't met irl.

Also yes, feel free to search for all my previous messages, make a compilation, literally waste your time on something that doesn't matter just to prove a point to people who don't really care, go on.

 

[WilliamG]

Who knew the term bisexual was so controversial..?
There are many flavors of sexual interest. I like to use the term "discreet bi-curious" for myself. I use it on my online profiles. And looking at the many others I see... Much the same. Now, as I gain experience... I may just say bisexual and call it a day. But does it matter in the big scheme of things..? Nope.

 

[FrankieGuile]

Who knew the term bisexual was so controversial..?
There are many flavors of sexual interest. I like to use the term "discreet bi-curious" for myself. I use it on my online profiles. And looking at the many others I see... Much the same. Now, as I gain experience... I may just say bisexual and call it a day. But does it matter in the big scheme of things..? Nope.

The term is not controversial. The attempt to tag men who do not consider themselves bisexual with a bisexual identity because they are in some form of denial is controversial. The controversy is projecting one's identity onto others and, thereby, denying that person's own identity.

 

[WilliamG]

So looking at the original post "How many men are actually bisexual" was based on a "poll from 2022 using 6000 Brits". I've chatted a ton with straight married men that are "very curious". To anyone in their circle in real life, they would never utter the words. But online gives us (if you're careful) a freedom to express. We can do and say things here that we would never utter in our real world. It's one of the attractions here at LPSG to me.

There are no statistics in this. I dare anyone to try and guess. I know there are straight men in their late 50's and up looking around. If a man is "straight" in everything but loves gay sex porn... What is he? Then he meets up IRL for mutual hand jobs... Now what is he?


My personal thoughts on the label (two bong hits):
Man who jerks off to gay porn... Bi-curious.
If you are a man who jerks off another man... Maybe even suck or be sucked once...Bi-curious.
A man who really enjoyed the cock and keeps going back to it... Bisexual.
And finally, If you take it in the butt... A big bisexual!
And if you do both... I wanna party with you!

 

[mineaminea]

Too much free time and a bit of insanity thrown up there too from what I can see, like dude, do you read yourself? You really jump into conclusions from thin air and then write whole paragraphs of the slightest thing that bothers you, even though the user hasn't threatened you, wasn't being pretentious or claimed his experiences were the same for everyone.
Also what fantasy are you talking about? I don't like most guys anyway, even less these days, why would I want a big majority of them to be bi or gay? I literally don't give a rats ass either way and it's not lazy to ask you why are you constantly arguing with people, like what good do you get from it? Clearly it does not make you feel better, but I guess you enjoy being miserable over the opinions of people you haven't met irl.

Also yes, feel free to search for all my previous messages, make a compilation, literally waste your time on something that doesn't matter just to prove a point to people who don't really care, go on.

It's just best to ignore him or her at this point. Either there is a mental illness, attention deprivation, or both. There is no way that this person is doing all of these mental gymnastics like he or she is training for the Olympics and something is not fundamentally wrong with this person or this person's life.

 

[FrankieGuile]

So looking at the original post "How many men are actually bisexual" was based on a "poll from 2022 using 6000 Brits". I've chatted a ton with straight married men that are "very curious". To anyone in their circle in real life, they would never utter the words. But online gives us (if you're careful) a freedom to express. We can do and say things here that we would never utter in our real world. It's one of the attractions here at LPSG to me.

There are no statistics in this. I dare anyone to try and guess. I know there are straight men in their late 50's and up looking around. If a man is "straight" in everything but loves gay sex porn... What is he? Then he meets up IRL for mutual hand jobs... Now what is he?


My personal thoughts on the label (two bong hits):
Man who jerks off to gay porn... Bi-curious.
If you are a man who jerks off another man... Maybe even suck or be sucked once...Bi-curious.
A man who really enjoyed the cock and keeps going back to it... Bisexual.
And finally, If you take it in the butt... A big bisexual!
And if you do both... I wanna party with you!

It's an expansive definition of bi or gay and a very restrictive one for "straight" but I suppose that suits the agenda and fits the narrative. Why not just go all-in and declare everyone homosexual?

 

[WilliamG]

It's an expansive definition of bi or gay and a very restrictive one for "straight" but I suppose that suits the agenda and fits the narrative. Why not just go all-in and declare everyone homosexual?

Maybe I'm tired... But I don't understand your point. To be "straight" to me means exclusively with the opposite sex in both real life and online porn habits. Otherwise "curious" seems a better fit. Homosexual to me (just my opinion) means you have a romantic tie to the same sex. Is that not a fair assessment? You've been beating folks up about this. So what is your opinion? Or are you just going to pick those apart for theirs? You do realize these are our opinions. So what is yours if I may ask? Or is it so touchy at can't be discussed?

 

[bi2]

Who knew the term bisexual was so controversial..?
There are many flavors of sexual interest. I like to use the term "discreet bi-curious" for myself. I use it on my online profiles. And looking at the many others I see... Much the same. Now, as I gain experience... I may just say bisexual and call it a day. But does it matter in the big scheme of things..? Nope.

I hookup with my fuckbuddy once a month, we both see and view ourselves as straight. Of course we are not.

Outside of this hookup, we dont have any personal or romantic feelings for each other or other men or seek that either.

If Bi men were celebrated and respected as Bi women, I think more would be open and forthcoming.

Our hookups are private and discrete, they have been rich and rewarding physical release. Why take a chance on ruining a good experience by being open about it, in any manner?

 

[Robert Dole]

It's an expansive definition of bi or gay and a very restrictive one for "straight" but I suppose that suits the agenda and fits the narrative. Why not just go all-in and declare everyone homosexual?

Why not just get a life and quit arguing about how to define the other guy?

 

[FrankieGuile]

Why not just get a life and quit arguing about how to define the other guy?

Ah! But I am not. I am pointing out the implication of the poster's definition and preposterousness of it. I can always tell those adherents to such a false narrative by the objections lodged, so I'll mark you down as one of them. As to my life, it's a good one.

 

[Robert Dole]

Ah! But I am not. I am pointing out the implication of the poster's definition and preposterousness of it. I can always tell those adherents to such a false narrative by the objections lodged, so I'll mark you down as one of them. As to my life, it's a good one.

All of which demonstrates that ignorance is it's own reward...

 

[FrankieGuile]

All of which demonstrates that ignorance is it's own reward...

If that is the best you can do, then you must be conceding the point.