Sorry to hear that . All may not be lost but you're going to need real self-control and back off, give him space. It won’t ever be the same but you could salvage a friendship possibly.Update....
Its over.......I finally got the courege to tell them my feelings, and when i did, he told me that he would never feel the same way about me, and the best way to move on is to forget about him.... I just cant...... help me please.... i feel like a fool...... I should enjoy it.... now Ive lost him, as a friend, best friend, and brother.help me please, i feel so depressed and down.....uhhhhhjhhhhhhh
Update....
Its over.......I finally got the courege to tell them my feelings, and when i did, he told me that he would never feel the same way about me, and the best way to move on is to forget about him.... I just cant...... help me please.... i feel like a fool...... I should enjoy it.... now Ive lost him, as a friend, best friend, and brother.help me please, i feel so depressed and down.....uhhhhhjhhhhhhh
Knowing myself, for me, going over this will take minimum 5 years, and maybe even more.. all the plans we have dreamed of about our new place, new life, our fantasy it all fell into water... it would never be the same..Been there. It sucks. It takes years to get over, but eventually you will. The hurt will never go away though. I speak from experience here.
Basically the most gayest thing ever..
I'm sorry to tell you this... you've been coming here asking for opinions but you've never listened to them! That's your fault. Even I had became best friends with many of my male crush.... I never told them aboyt my feelibgs because I knew that the best way to get closer to them all the time is to become best friends. I even sleepover with many of my guys.Update....
Its over.......I finally got the courege to tell them my feelings, and when i did, he told me that he would never feel the same way about me, and the best way to move on is to forget about him.... I just cant...... help me please.... i feel like a fool...... I should enjoy it.... now Ive lost him, as a friend, best friend, and brother.help me please, i feel so depressed and down.....uhhhhhjhhhhhhh
Knowing myself, for me, going over this will take minimum 5 years, and maybe even more.. all the plans we have dreamed of about our new place, new life, our fantasy it all fell into water... it would never be the same..
Yes, maybe I’ve should listened... but suddenly I didn’t. I was sure that I wouldn’t tell him. So sure. But we’ve got drunk. I was enough drunk to confess, and he was drunk but still sober, enough to listen to me.
And we strated chating.. about us.. and our friendship. I was on trip for 2 weeks. And the last week from that trip, I started to miss him a lot, his voice, his jokes, his existence... and I’ve told him that, and he answered that he missed mee to, but only on few moments. He said that i was his only friend and for some moments he wished that i was with him. :/ yep..
and I’ve said my, i love you. I’ve told him everything, when i got my first feeling for him. He was smiling all the time... and he looked worried... when i told him that, we were chating a lot, i dont even remember now cus i was drunk.... i remember when he told me, “why did you came out?” I didn’t know what to say... he was there the whole time, he never wanted to leave. He wanted to listen the whole time. At one point he wanted to tell something about his feelings but I’ve stopped him... I remember that he said, its better to have your feelings for yourself.
And boom, he said that he doesn’t know if he would feel the same way.. and that’s it. I’ve told him that i have to go, and thats the end. We’ve chatted today for work, and now i feel empty, embarrassed, lonely..
THere is a lot of this story, but I don’t have the power to write everything... it will be a long period..
Actually, that makes me see this differently. You're being a drama queen and totally self-indulgent. This is all about you spilling your feelings (again) and disregarding his. Sounds like you didn’t give him a chance to get a word in and when he didn’t profess undying love, you flounce off in a strop. I feel sorry for him, not you. Grow up.Yes, maybe I’ve should listened... but suddenly I didn’t. I was sure that I wouldn’t tell him. So sure. But we’ve got drunk. I was enough drunk to confess, and he was drunk but still sober, enough to listen to me.
And we strated chating.. about us.. and our friendship. I was on trip for 2 weeks. And the last week from that trip, I started to miss him a lot, his voice, his jokes, his existence... and I’ve told him that, and he answered that he missed mee to, but only on few moments. He said that i was his only friend and for some moments he wished that i was with him. :/ yep..
and I’ve said my, i love you. I’ve told him everything, when i got my first feeling for him. He was smiling all the time... and he looked worried... when i told him that, we were chating a lot, i dont even remember now cus i was drunk.... i remember when he told me, “why did you came out?” I didn’t know what to say... he was there the whole time, he never wanted to leave. He wanted to listen the whole time. At one point he wanted to tell something about his feelings but I’ve stopped him... I remember that he said, its better to have your feelings for yourself.
And boom, he said that he doesn’t know if he would feel the same way.. and that’s it. I’ve told him that i have to go, and thats the end. We’ve chatted today for work, and now i feel empty, embarrassed, lonely..
THere is a lot of this story, but I don’t have the power to write everything... it will be a long period..
Actually, that makes me see this differently. You're being a drama queen and totally self-indulgent. This is all about you spilling your feelings (again) and disregarding his. Sounds like you didn’t give him a chance to get a word in and when he didn’t profess undying love, you flounce off in a strop. I feel sorry for him, not you. Grow up.