What do you do?

[hornygamer89]

For the guys with girlfriends or wives that rarely or would rather not suck your cock, how do you handle this, if you are one that loves getting your cock sucked?

 

[Squirrel1]

I just don’t get my cock sucked.

 

[notthatguy]

It is a matter of give and take.... I always eat her out to a handful of orgasms. She returns the favor.

 

[deleted5514261]

There’s more to life than a blowjob nice as they are. If she’s not into it I’m not going to force her to do it.

 

[Rooker]

Probably something that should be figured out early in a relationship. At least as early as the two people are comfortable getting to the point of exchanging oral sex. But I guess if it’s an issue, communication is key.

Kind of the standard answer, but that’s for a reason.

 

[thickcockjames]

Like anything in a healthy relationship, have a conversation about it. If you can't talk to your partner about sex, then you probably shouldn't be having sex with them IMO.

 

[eltoro45]

Don't commit to a woman who doesn't suck your cock. Don't stay with a woman who stops sucking your cock.

 

[Mike hung]

On the whole I'm too thick for a decent bj but that doesn't mean I don't like a partner to try and do her best, use her hands and develop her own technique.
My first wife struggled with all aspects of my size, once we were married and I'd given her kids she pretty much turned off the tap for sex and even oral.
I've always been involved in the lifestyle community which she never got her head around so I wasn't exactly starved, but with her withdrawing from all sexual activity I ended up just having other regular hookups with women who were more enthusiastic, the marriage obviously turned sour so I binned her off.
She was in it for my money, a proper gold digger but couldn't handle the dick and wasn't interested in trying anymore.
I was young and nieve thinking it'd work but it didn't, if they can't handle the dick or just not interested it's best to quit bro and find some who can, there's plenty out there.

 

[MarriedCountryDad]

You marry for better or worse.

Haven’t had a blow job in around 20 years. It’s just not my wife’s thing. I don’t make her feel bad about it. She knows I love eating her out and she allows that despite her background telling her oral sex is bad/wrong.

What I lose in blowjobs has been returned immensely by her being a great spouse, friend and mother.

I live life focusing on the positives - they usually outweigh the negatives by factors of 10 if you choose the right partner.

 

[lapdog2001]

Fortunately, I've never run into that situation. While getting blown by some women in my life was an every time thing, and more of a once-in-a-while thing with other women, every woman I've been with has sucked my cock without me having to ask them to do it.