Why is it culturally ok to make fun of small penises?

[deleted1138933]

You either have a very short, or a selective memory. Go back and look at your comment where you asked Perfectsix what determines the kind of man someone is if it isn't cock size.

I'm here for conversations that I can't find on other social media. But my explanation doesn't matter. You've made up your mind on the topic. I'm not explaining myself any further to you because you've shown it's a pointless endeavor. You have yet to listen to anything I've said. You're projecting your own opinion onto me and saying it is mine. Move along and stop being a troll.

Conversation about . . . big dick? What brought you here initially? Oh, because whatever conversation you seek really cannot be brought up anywhere else? Yeah

 

[AVx22]

But, by definition, 50% of men are below average. Further, what about the small? Say the lower 10-15%?

Well below average is complicated. 5.0 is below 5.2, but that’s not terribly below. The 10-15 present, maybe those below 5in? Not many people fall into that category, statistically. Natural selection maybe?

 

[deleted5506831]

Conversation about . . . big dick? What brought you here initially? Oh, because whatever conversation you seek really cannot be brought up anywhere else? Yeah

Check the topic of this thread. Definitely NOT about big dicks.

Seriously. Go away

 

[deleted5506831]

Before the thread getting derailed by some members....I'm reposting my thoughts on the topic of this thread.

First: it's not OK to make fun of someone. Especially over something they can't control.

Second: my personal opinion aside, I think it has more to do with ingrained, biological factors. Historically, evolution has favored the biggest, strongest individual. Especially when it comes to males. The biggest and strongest buck, lion, etc. is the one most likely to reproduce. In humans, that innate biological desire is, unfortunately, tied to penis size. When you strip everything else away, humans are driven by biology and biological desires. What better way for a man to feel he is superior than comparing penis size or putting someone down because they happen to be smaller?

Or, it could just be that some people have low self-esteem and putting others down makes them feel better about themselves. There are so many biological, societal and psychological factors that could be in play, that it could be hard to narrow down an exact reason

 

[deleted5506831]

Large penises were not always seen as ideal. The Greeks preferred smaller cocks. Look at the statue of David or any other statue from the Renaissance period. The men are, by LPSG standards, small. Large penises were viewed as grotesque.

My opinion is also that men place more value on penis size than women do. It's another thing for them to compete over. Another way to stroke their own ego. Seriously, how many of you men have gone through galleries on here and said to yourself "I'm bigger than that guy. I'm bigger than him too." and you immediately feel better about yourself? How many of you message someone specifically asking for measurements, and if they are bigger than you, you stop contact? I'd venture to say quite a few of you. Heck, from talking with other men, I KNOW this happens!

I think it's safe to say most women don't care what size you are, so long as the sex is good, you know what buttons to push, etc. I know the vast majority of women don't demand a potential dating partner drop his pants and show him his cock before we will agree to go on a date.

Just my thoughts...agree or disagree

 

[deleted1138933]

Before the thread getting derailed by some members....I'm reposting my thoughts on the topic of this thread.

First: it's not OK to make fun of someone. Especially over something they can't control.

Second: my personal opinion aside, I think it has more to do with ingrained, biological factors. Historically, evolution has favored the biggest, strongest individual. Especially when it comes to males. The biggest and strongest buck, lion, etc. is the one most likely to reproduce. In humans, that innate biological desire is, unfortunately, tied to penis size. When you strip everything else away, humans are driven by biology and biological desires. What better way for a man to feel he is superior than comparing penis size or putting someone down because they happen to be smaller?

Or, it could just be that some people have low self-esteem and putting others down makes them feel better about themselves. There are so many biological, societal and psychological factors that could be in play, that it could be hard to narrow down an exact reason

So basically, you are acknowledging size superiority, bigger is better. Totally contradictory to the false image you are trying to portray.

 

[XXXWolverineXXX]

For the same reason farts are funny it just is.

 

[deleted1138933]

Large penises were not always seen as ideal. The Greeks preferred smaller cocks. Look at the statue of David or any other statue from the Renaissance period. The men are, by LPSG standards, small. Large penises were viewed as grotesque.

My opinion is also that men place more value on penis size than women do. It's another thing for them to compete over. Another way to stroke their own ego. Seriously, how many of you men have gone through galleries on here and said to yourself "I'm bigger than that guy. I'm bigger than him too." and you immediately feel better about yourself? How many of you message someone specifically asking for measurements, and if they are bigger than you, you stop contact? I'd venture to say quite a few of you. Heck, from talking with other men, I KNOW this happens!

I think it's safe to say most women don't care what size you are, so long as the sex is good, you know what buttons to push, etc. I know the vast majority of women don't demand a potential dating partner drop his pants and show him his cock before we will agree to go on a date.

Just my thoughts...agree or disagree

The Greeks only saw smaller penises as “ideal” precisely because of their sexual inferiority, it represented reason, calm, non- animalistic prowess, precisely because the large actually represented passion, frenzy etc. So, no, it was not ideal.

 

[deleted1138933]

Large penises were not always seen as ideal. The Greeks preferred smaller cocks. Look at the statue of David or any other statue from the Renaissance period. The men are, by LPSG standards, small. Large penises were viewed as grotesque.

My opinion is also that men place more value on penis size than women do. It's another thing for them to compete over. Another way to stroke their own ego. Seriously, how many of you men have gone through galleries on here and said to yourself "I'm bigger than that guy. I'm bigger than him too." and you immediately feel better about yourself? How many of you message someone specifically asking for measurements, and if they are bigger than you, you stop contact? I'd venture to say quite a few of you. Heck, from talking with other men, I KNOW this happens!

I think it's safe to say most women don't care what size you are, so long as the sex is good, you know what buttons to push, etc. I know the vast majority of women don't demand a potential dating partner drop his pants and show him his cock before we will agree to go on a date.

Just my thoughts...agree or disagree

All if not most women do care and value. I have never heard a woman state they want, value, desire, or idealize small penises. All innuendos, jokes, remarks are always referencing their admiration to big dicks, and putting down small ones. Look at all the women in this site

 

[AVx22]

The Greeks were one small part of the world, so their “ideal small penis” bears no weight to the rest of the world. Larger penises being seen as grotesque by a certain group of people reminds me of why a certain group of people were viewed as animalistic for having larger penises....

Women, imo, tend to lie about “not caring about size” because women historically weren’t suppose to enjoy sex in many cultures. Maybe there’s a certain shame attached to liking sex or wanting a bigger dick.

 

[wayless]

The Greeks were one small part of the world, so their “ideal small penis” bears no weight to the rest of the world. Larger penises being seen as grotesque by a certain group of people reminds me of why a certain group of people were viewed as animalistic for having larger penises....

Women, imo, tend to lie about “not caring about size” because women historically weren’t suppose to enjoy sex in many cultures. Maybe there’s a certain shame attached to liking sex or wanting a bigger dick.

Yes, the Greeks viewed barbarians as lesser people, more primitive, and tried to demonize their bigger dicks, just like White southerners tried to feel about Black men who they viewed as more sexually potent with larger dicks.

 

[3HandsfulofDick]

Large penises were not always seen as ideal. The Greeks preferred smaller cocks. Look at the statue of David or any other statue from the Renaissance period. The men are, by LPSG standards, small. Large penises were viewed as grotesque.

My opinion is also that men place more value on penis size than women do. It's another thing for them to compete over. Another way to stroke their own ego. Seriously, how many of you men have gone through galleries on here and said to yourself "I'm bigger than that guy. I'm bigger than him too." and you immediately feel better about yourself? How many of you message someone specifically asking for measurements, and if they are bigger than you, you stop contact? I'd venture to say quite a few of you. Heck, from talking with other men, I KNOW this happens!

I think it's safe to say most women don't care what size you are, so long as the sex is good, you know what buttons to push, etc. I know the vast majority of women don't demand a potential dating partner drop his pants and show him his cock before we will agree to go on a date.

Just my thoughts...agree or disagree

Thats what women always told me..

 

[wayless]

Thats what women always told me..

Until they realized the limitations of the really small.

 

[wayless]

Women, imo, tend to lie about “not caring about size” because women historically weren’t suppose to enjoy sex in many cultures. Maybe there’s a certain shame attached to liking sex or wanting a bigger dick.

Truer words were never spoken.

 

[3HandsfulofDick]

Until they realized the limitations of the really small.

Until they realized the limitations of the really small.

It’s not my place to say what a man with a smaller can do or can’t do... As long as his partner is satisfied , who am I to argue...I’m not fixated on another mans dick regardless of size

 

[Hassall]

The question was not what makes a good person, but what determines manhood? These sane characteristics can be held and portrayed by women, does that make them men/male? From a woman's point of view those are just additional desired traits, does not exclude desire for size.

What determines manhood? Sooo many things. First, everything Ahsoka1 said. Plus a whole host of things. I am more than my dick, I'm an excellent father, I even raised two that weren't mine as tho they wer mine and one was a nightmare. A man works, masters his trade, business, crafts, or arts. A man even has the ability to help someone out of a jam even if he might not care too much for the person. I've helped plenty of jackasses in my day, simply because I knew that without it. They might lose a job, or the ability to get to it. I've worked on people cars for them and never excepted the payment they offered. A man treats women with respect, is a good neighbor. We MEN ARE SOOOO MUCH MORETHAN OUR GADDAMNED DICKS!!!!!

Regarding size, I have a freind who's hung like an forearm...when he's limp. It's damned near a disability, and a liability. Wear tight clothing everyone snickers. Wear lose clothing run the risk of losing it on the job as it bounces around his leg. He's an excellent builder. He says its never gotten completely hard, so some women its just about useless in. Think of those porn dicks looks like their trying to stuff a water willy through pinhole while whacky circus music plays in the background.

When I was 18, I lived in Southern Oregon and pulled green chain in a mill on swing shift. I had just moved back to Oregon from Lowsyana. I ran into an old high school party freind I used to play around with. She's seeing a guy, a guy that's sh'es saying is "super long" he's young and everytime it hurts her. My guess is he just doesnt care. She askss where I live I tell her. Luckily he works day shift so 4-5 days a week I get sweet little wake up call around 8-8:30. Me, a little above average, she would sleep with him on SAturdays only after getting numb drunk.

We are so much more than our dicks. I went through a time when I developed a hang up. Let it get into my head after an episode.It spund my gears for few years. there's a really big world out there, and I haven't dated in a while mainly because of health reasons. by the time I was getting to where I could this flippin pandemic hit. That said once I figure a way to stay safe and not get sick as I don't need anymore lung issues. Figure that out and this dudes getting back out there. My kids are grown now, I fulfilled my biological function so now it's my time! Bad back, COPD, who cares.... better to live with a partner than wallowing alone in sorrow.....

 

[deleted1138933]

What determines manhood? Sooo many things. First, everything Ahsoka1 said. Plus a whole host of things. I am more than my dick, I'm an excellent father, I even raised two that weren't mine as tho they wer mine and one was a nightmare. A man works, masters his trade, business, crafts, or arts. A man even has the ability to help someone out of a jam even if he might not care too much for the person. I've helped plenty of jackasses in my day, simply because I knew that without it. They might lose a job, or the ability to get to it. I've worked on people cars for them and never excepted the payment they offered. A man treats women with respect, is a good neighbor. We MEN ARE SOOOO MUCH MORETHAN OUR GADDAMNED DICKS!!!!!

Regarding size, I have a freind who's hung like an forearm...when he's limp. It's damned near a disability, and a liability. Wear tight clothing everyone snickers. Wear lose clothing run the risk of losing it on the job as it bounces around his leg. He's an excellent builder. He says its never gotten completely hard, so some women its just about useless in. Think of those porn dicks looks like their trying to stuff a water willy through pinhole while whacky circus music plays in the background.

When I was 18, I lived in Southern Oregon and pulled green chain in a mill on swing shift. I had just moved back to Oregon from Lowsyana. I ran into an old high school party freind I used to play around with. She's seeing a guy, a guy that's sh'es saying is "super long" he's young and everytime it hurts her. My guess is he just doesnt care. She askss where I live I tell her. Luckily he works day shift so 4-5 days a week I get sweet little wake up call around 8-8:30. Me, a little above average, she would sleep with him on SAturdays only after getting numb drunk.

We are so much more than our dicks. I went through a time when I developed a hang up. Let it get into my head after an episode.It spund my gears for few years. there's a really big world out there, and I haven't dated in a while mainly because of health reasons. by the time I was getting to where I could this flippin pandemic hit. That said once I figure a way to stay safe and not get sick as I don't need anymore lung issues. Figure that out and this dudes getting back out there. My kids are grown now, I fulfilled my biological function so now it's my time! Bad back, COPD, who cares.... better to live with a partner than wallowing alone in sorrow.....

A WOMAN CAN DO THIS, DOES THAT MAKE THEM MEN??
“raised two that weren't mine as tho they wer mine and one was a nightmare. A man works, masters his trade, business, crafts, or arts. A man even has the ability to help someone out of a jam even if he might not care too much for the person. I've helped plenty of jackasses in my day, simply because I knew that without it. They might lose a job, or the ability to get to it. I've worked on people cars for them and never excepted the payment they offered. A man treats women with respect, is a good neighbor.” I HAVE DONE MANY OF THESE, WHAT DOES THAT MATTER?? DOES NOT CHANGE FACTS OF WHAT WOMEN WANT, IDEALIZE, AND DESIRE.

SO YOU ARE NOT SMALL
“Me, a little above average,”

 

[malakos]

The Greeks only saw smaller penises as “ideal” precisely because of their sexual inferiority, it represented reason, calm, non- animalistic prowess, precisely because the large actually represented passion, frenzy etc. So, no, it was not ideal.

What I bolded were some of the key values of the Athenians, and so whatever embodied those would in fact be ideal to them. By refusing to acknowledge that it represents the ideal to them, you're refusing to decouple ideality from your own values. But the ideal is always relative to one's own values. So yes, compact, well shapen genitals were an aspect of the ideal male figure for them.

 

[malakos]

Yes, the Greeks viewed barbarians as lesser people, more primitive, and tried to demonize their bigger dicks, just like White southerners tried to feel about Black men who they viewed as more sexually potent with larger dicks.

There's not really any basis for assuming that the ancient Greeks had on average considerably smaller penises than the neighboring barbarians. That's not the best theory for why they had a different ideal of the male form.

 

[deleted1138933]

What I bolded were some of the key values of the Athenians, and so whatever embodied those would in fact be ideal to them. By refusing to acknowledge that it represents the ideal to them, you're refusing to decouple ideality from your own values. But the ideal is always relative to one's own values. So yes, compact, well shapen genitals were an aspect of the ideal male figure for them.

Exactly, still for not ideal for sexual prowess.