I am all for taking on worshippers but if it’s at the risk of their humiliation I’m not keen. By all means worship, send me requests or nice comments and how you’d worship but don’t put yourself down.
Willing To Admit Big Dick Superiority
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He doesn't want to establish friendships on that basis. He wants to get a thrill out of talking to men with big dicks. By bringing his own small dick into the discussion, he heightens the primal power of dick size while simultaneously stroking the egos of hung men and discharging the anxiety that comes from wondering if he will be accepted by them.I have mixed emotions about responding to this thread. I'm 70 years old. I don't think it is wise to establish friendships utilizing this criteria. Acknowledging cock size variety is fun, but basing theoretical assumptions of superiority solely upon cock size is not constructive. Throughout my life, unless I was seeking attention, I rarely heard any discussion about cock size. The usual banter was juvenile speculation about sexual conquests, immature assumptions concerning power associated with personality, and lately exhibited by an incompetent business man that will lie outright about everything.
I honestly believe that I have attached too much personal identity to my cock
Have fun playing with each other's cock, and express honest desires. Don't create illusionary hypothesis.
Analysis worth what you paid.
How is worship possible without hierarchy?
If you weren’t accepted, there wouldn’t be men with big dicks responding to you. Looks like you’re accepted.
Yeah, I know. And just like I found in middle school, the best way to be accepted in a specific community is to acknowledge one’s own shortcomings and focus on the obvious assets of those that belong.
Nothing wrong with appreciating big dicks, amiguete. How you do so is up to you.
Yea I agree with the above poster. Its fine if you really like big cocks and "worship" them as you see fit. But I'm not down with the demeaning others or yourself as part of the process. I guess it is a fetish to some degree. But sometimes we mask pain by humor and that isn't healthy.
I think we all have our thing. I personally love a big cock on a physically smaller framed guy. Like a 5'4" guy with a cock bigger than 7" is a huge turn on for me. Does his big cock mean he's more masculine? Not at all. In fact sometimes they aren't. So I dont really see a correlation between masculinity and cock size. Maybe more someone's physical size or height is more tied to masculinity.
I think we all have our thing. I personally love a big cock on a physically smaller framed guy. Like a 5'4" guy with a cock bigger than 7" is a huge turn on for me. Does his big cock mean he's more masculine? Not at all. In fact sometimes they aren't. So I dont really see a correlation between masculinity and cock size. Maybe more someone's physical size or height is more tied to masculinity.
I like a dude who is in awe of my dick and wants to give me the best pleasure. Don’t mind a some humiliation but never gonna make a guy feel less than over something he can’t control.
I’ll just say this. I appreciate all the bigs on here talking about how there is no real competition and that dick size doesn’t determine true masculinity and all that. It comes from a good place.
However I think it also comes from a place of well-meaning ignorance. Until you’ve had sex with the woman you love and have her say - sometimes with malice, sometimes not - that she can’t feel you, until you disappoint somebody over and over due to not being able to last much longer than a few seconds, until you’ve watched movie after movie in which a smaller dick is made fun of, until you’ve been called names by people that have seen your undersized cock, until you’ve been singled out for all the wrong reasons, your attempts at encouragement will only mean so much.
It’s sort of like that analogy. Some people start out the race so far ahead and they don’t know that a race is even going on, so they just stroll lazily to the finish line. To them it’s all just a pleasant walk, but they’re blissfully unaware that there are people who are running like hell, sweating, panting, just to finish at all.
I don’t resent bigger men and I’m working hard not to envy them. But I do believe that society values bigger dicks more than smaller ones, and that a big penis may not in itself indicate masculinity, but it helps it along as a symbol of virility and the ability to make others feel good.
This thread is about bigger and smaller guys coming together with the understanding that, whether we like it or not, there is a societal hierarchy - possibly unconscious - in which big dicked men are elevated and small dicked men are treated as punchlines. I’m not saying this connection has to be cruel, but it does have to be honest.
I’ve been lied to before, saying that size doesn’t matter, only to be told in the heat of the moment that it matters very much. As such I no longer trust when people say these encouraging things, even if the person saying it appears to believe it.
I appreciate the effort to make me and the other small guys feel better, but I’d prefer if we all just be honest with each other. Those that are big are happy they’re big and those that are small wish they weren’t.
However I think it also comes from a place of well-meaning ignorance. Until you’ve had sex with the woman you love and have her say - sometimes with malice, sometimes not - that she can’t feel you, until you disappoint somebody over and over due to not being able to last much longer than a few seconds, until you’ve watched movie after movie in which a smaller dick is made fun of, until you’ve been called names by people that have seen your undersized cock, until you’ve been singled out for all the wrong reasons, your attempts at encouragement will only mean so much.
It’s sort of like that analogy. Some people start out the race so far ahead and they don’t know that a race is even going on, so they just stroll lazily to the finish line. To them it’s all just a pleasant walk, but they’re blissfully unaware that there are people who are running like hell, sweating, panting, just to finish at all.
I don’t resent bigger men and I’m working hard not to envy them. But I do believe that society values bigger dicks more than smaller ones, and that a big penis may not in itself indicate masculinity, but it helps it along as a symbol of virility and the ability to make others feel good.
This thread is about bigger and smaller guys coming together with the understanding that, whether we like it or not, there is a societal hierarchy - possibly unconscious - in which big dicked men are elevated and small dicked men are treated as punchlines. I’m not saying this connection has to be cruel, but it does have to be honest.
I’ve been lied to before, saying that size doesn’t matter, only to be told in the heat of the moment that it matters very much. As such I no longer trust when people say these encouraging things, even if the person saying it appears to believe it.
I appreciate the effort to make me and the other small guys feel better, but I’d prefer if we all just be honest with each other. Those that are big are happy they’re big and those that are small wish they weren’t.
By the way, for those smaller guys reading this, I’m not saying you’re undeserving of love and appreciation. You deserve respect just as much as anybody else and you still have value as a person. To me having a small dick is like having only one leg; you’re no less valuable, but it would be patronizing to suggest that you were as capable as a two-legged person.
For me being submissive with men, makes me comfortable that I have a small cock rather than something larger then theirs. I crave to adore and worship a large cock. A man with a large dick who also carries himself more confident and appears more manly makes it that much more intoxicating for me. But their are some large cocks on guys who still have no confidence. Or they don’t carry themselves as being manly. They do not turn me on as much, even with having a large penis.
So the masculinity you exhibit with your large cock at hand, is what drives my passion. You know you have a large cock, you know I want it and you you make me beg for it. It is in fact part of the erotic world I live in and I’m fine with it.
So the masculinity you exhibit with your large cock at hand, is what drives my passion. You know you have a large cock, you know I want it and you you make me beg for it. It is in fact part of the erotic world I live in and I’m fine with it.
I think this is one of the few times a “small” guy has articulated the point without demeaning himself or sounding like an incel little bitch. I acknowledge that I do have hung privilege but I also won’t apologize for something I didn’t have any control over. Big dicks have been appreciated, marveled, and revered for centuries because it’s seen as a sign of superiority; one of the few physical signs on men that distinguish one from another. But that’s only at our baser level. It’s a game of genetics and how we are built to prolong our genes. And even though in modern society there are other means of valuing a man’s ability to provide and procreate, we still are hung up on being hung.
I hope I didn’t give the impression that I think hung guys should apologize for their privilege. Not at all. Some people are smart, some are dumb, some are tall, some are short, and so on. I don’t think anybody should apologize for what they can’t help, but still acknowledge - maybe sometimes in the form of an apology - the undue burden their limitations can put on those they care about.
For example, as I think I mentioned, along with being small, I’m extremely premature. My wife and I have tried all the tricks, but they haven’t helped much. My therapist says it’s probably psychological, so I’m trying to work through that. It’s not my fault, but it still negatively impacts my wife, whom I love very much. Sometimes she mentions this, not always lovingly, so I apologize for not being able to do for her what some other guys might.
I’m just in favor of everybody being truthful. That’s all.
There are meds for that. I have a premature issue that makes any kind of penetration with men or women really difficult. I blow my load as I'm pushing in. I think us smaller guys are wired more intensely. Try a light dose of some of the antidepressants out there. It will numb the feeling up but you'll still be able to get hard. I tried some and it worked pretty well. Its just managing the side effects that can challenging. But I understand your point about being small. I'm not super small but small enough I've had some guys I've hooked up with laugh at me and say demeaning things. There have been times I cant penetrate cause of the above mentioned situations so I avoid penetrative sex. Sure...everyone like a big dick. If we have a choice most of us would select the Hung category. I think we can all acknowledge that. But its also just this time in history. Big dicks are representive of virility. But I'm an art history major. And back in the Roman days hung men were viewed as inferior and considered beasts or dumb. The smaller you were the more intelligent. Thats why many statues have smaller penises during that time period. Just saying...it might be a trend. But dont beat yourself up for it. Fix what you got and move forward. Having a small penis doesn't prevent you from having a smoking body that can be just as hot to some.
It’s funny that you mention that you feel that your dick has more sensitivity because it’s smaller because I’ve always felt I’ve had less because I’m bigger. It always takes me a while to bust and if I don’t get enough stimulation, I lose my wood. That’s why I hate dudes that love to give long, slow blowjobs haha. I just get annoyed and rage in frustration that they are making a “feast” of it when it should be the easiest way to make me nut.
Very well put. I feel being rejected solely by having small dick (which is very much prevalent in gay culture) also causes anxiety and you lose confidence in dating scene. At some point you just don’t try to hit up or meet guys anymore because you are nervous that he will see your dick and you gonna get rejected. I was in this boat of insecurity. I lived in LA and obsession about big dick is a pandemic. Most of the hot guys start conversation with “how hung?” without even seeing the face. The ones who pretend they don’t care about the dick size actually are huge size queens in my experience. Of course exceptions exist, but that number is insignificant. I am not saying there is anything wrong liking big dicks (I like them too) but to say that having a big dick doesn’t impact overall psychological well being is simply an ignorance. The piles of rejections lead to self doubt, insecurity and sense of “I am not good enough” and it crawls to other aspects of your life too.
I have heard the conversation among my own friends saying phrases like “he is good but he has a small dick” towards the guys they hooked up, while other friends will reply back “ahh”.
I have heard the conversation among my own friends saying phrases like “he is good but he has a small dick” towards the guys they hooked up, while other friends will reply back “ahh”.
Oh yea. I totally 100% believe men with smaller dicks are more sensitive and trigger happy than larger dicked guys. Ive been with a lot of hung men and generally it takes considerably longer for them to cum than that of average or small sized men. Sometimes they dont cum at all...or they really, really, have to focus to be able to nut. Maybe it has something to do with blood flow to more meat down there. But that has been my experience. But for me, I could cum in like 30 seconds if i had to.
