Last much longer where I had control. Sometimes 5 or 10 minutes.
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I think as you age you will learn to go longer. When I was young I had that issue as well. I taught myself to pace. I mean....as I am having intercourse or oral and feel myself getting close to ejaculating I stop thrusting and just stand down till the feeling subsides. I've learned as time went on that I was able to do that more and more...thus I can now thrust for several minutes without ejaculation. Partner loves the extra time! Im 59 now. You will be ok.
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If you do see a GP, you'll have more options than going straight to SSRI's or similar. One of my exes used to get prescribed a cream that would help him to last a bit longer.
He said it was much more consistent than the sprays and the likes that you get in sex shops.
Just to say as well that a lot of people can find the idea of PE to be pretty hot too
He said it was much more consistent than the sprays and the likes that you get in sex shops.
Just to say as well that a lot of people can find the idea of PE to be pretty hot too
I've seen your cum videos and they are amazing. Personally I would just enjoy what you have and find guys who will enjoy that with you. The best sex usually comes from great communication anyway so try explaining to guys how you want to have sex and what they say.
How long do you need between rounds?
Just a couple of weeks ago I met up with this guy who said he'd be able to cum twice. I said I would find it hot if he left the door on the latch and then I'd walk in on him with pants off, legs apart, and rock hard. He said he sometimes cums really fast the first time but will get hard, and go again, in five minutes or so. Fast was an understatement. I had barely grazed my fingers against his cock and he was like OMG I'm gonna cum! So I got his dick in my mouth and milked out his orgasm. But instead of leaving disappointed I kept his dick in my mouth and lightly stimulated him. True to his word a few minutes later he's hard again and blowing another load.
The chat we had prior to the hook-up made, what would have otherwise been frustrating, amazingly erotic. That's something I'd go back to time and time again.
Some guys get embarrassed talking about sex, especially if they are insecure about something, but it's what you do with it that counts. If you cum fast and can go again quickly this is a skill you need to embrace, be proud about, and let people know you have. Lots of guys would totally love this.
How long do you need between rounds?
Just a couple of weeks ago I met up with this guy who said he'd be able to cum twice. I said I would find it hot if he left the door on the latch and then I'd walk in on him with pants off, legs apart, and rock hard. He said he sometimes cums really fast the first time but will get hard, and go again, in five minutes or so. Fast was an understatement. I had barely grazed my fingers against his cock and he was like OMG I'm gonna cum! So I got his dick in my mouth and milked out his orgasm. But instead of leaving disappointed I kept his dick in my mouth and lightly stimulated him. True to his word a few minutes later he's hard again and blowing another load.
The chat we had prior to the hook-up made, what would have otherwise been frustrating, amazingly erotic. That's something I'd go back to time and time again.
Some guys get embarrassed talking about sex, especially if they are insecure about something, but it's what you do with it that counts. If you cum fast and can go again quickly this is a skill you need to embrace, be proud about, and let people know you have. Lots of guys would totally love this.
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I know this seems bad right now... But as you get older, it will go away. In the meantime... Just before you plan to hookup - Masturbate. This is an age old trick, made famous in The Forty Year Old Virgin. If you can jack off twice a day and still cum premature... That means you're ready to go again. Don't over think this.I think i jerk off quite a lot...almost daily and when I go twice in a short period of time I don't see a huge improvement (if any at all)...
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I personally know of many folks that love to suck cock to finish - love a fast cummer!
Exactly there's nothing better than a guy with a sensitive dick that I can enjoy teasing and playing with.
I Take it everyday, first thing in the morning. Tremendous for libido, and delaying ejaculation. Works wonders for me. The other supplements you mention, can also be effective, but from my own personal experience, icariin, on its on, not in a blend, achieves the best result.
Always remember that these supplements are vasodilators, therefore are capable of lowering blood pressure. That’s why I’m not a fan of taking blends, as it can lower it a little too much, which obviously isn’t good. I personally take icariin 60, from a company called world abs. The results are phenomenal.
Wow, that stuff is close to $1 per pill and ABS suggests 3 pills per day.
Yeah Kegels can make it worse sometimes. So people recommend doing both normal and reverse kegels to try balance your pelvic floor.
People focus more on normal kegels and neglect the reverse.
Ive tried them but not long enough I don’t think, and never got to test it out due to lack of consistent sexual partner. I go months without one so it’s hard.
Stop/start I can see how it works but sometimes it’s either too late or you’re lost in the moment and don’t wanna stop…Especially if the the other person is enjoying it
As for anti depressants yeah I wouldn’t recommend as first choice, I feel my PE was worsened by coming off anti depressants. I’ve not had PE this bad since I lost my virginity…I’ve been off for a few months.
always had PE issues but usually gets better the more I’m around someone but this time no luck. I could cum just from kissing.
Im now back on anti depressants partly because my anxiety has been through the roof recently and also to hopefully help improve my PE.
im gonna see how I get on but also practice kegels in the meantime and improve masturbation habits.
Would defo recommend trying other methods before meds.
A consistent partner who understands would help for sure though
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Thank you!! I think lockdown/lack of regular hookups has probably added to the problem, but you're right - it's something that perhaps has to be embraced and I'll work towards it
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thank you, that sounds promising! Do you know if there is a difference between taking pure icariin and horny goat weed? I've seen Holland and barrett do Horny goat weed 250mg so was thinking of getting that?
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I think you're right that inconsistency of partners wouldn't help; it was bad when I had a boyfriend but it's definitely worse now. I really hope that you will find a solution - whether that's help for the PE or embracing it. Feel free to DM me if you wanna share experiences etc. i know it can be helpful to talk to someone with the same issue
There is an SSRI, dapoxetine, that is marketed as a drug called Priligy, which is used primarily to prevent premature ejaculation. It has been studied clinically and it definitely increases the amount of time a man can have sexual stimulation before ejaculation. It only works for about 4-6 hours and when you don't take it the PE comes back. It is not a cure but it has helped a lot of men.
PE actually effects about 40% of all men worldwide based on studies. It is not uncommon and don't feel ashamed about it or that there is something rare that is hampering your ideal sex life! Some people absolutely love cum and want more and more; maybe that kind of person is an ideal sex partner for you?? I hope you figure it all out!
PE actually effects about 40% of all men worldwide based on studies. It is not uncommon and don't feel ashamed about it or that there is something rare that is hampering your ideal sex life! Some people absolutely love cum and want more and more; maybe that kind of person is an ideal sex partner for you?? I hope you figure it all out!
I started off with the Holland and Barrett Horny goat weed, and it was excellent for me. It’s a standardised product which is very important.
Icariin is the main active ingredient of horny goat weed, so icariin 60 is standardised to 60% pure icariin, whereas other products are at 10%.
When trying it for the first time though, the Holland and Barrett supplement, is definitely well worth trying.
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thank you! I've read about Priligy but as others have said am still apprehensive about starting any medication, but might need to resort to it at some point.
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Thanks! Would you say that after some time you needed the higher amount of pure icarrin as the 10% wasn't as effective any more?
Aside from the usual ‘jerk off pre-sex’, there’s one thing that always helps me - I often find while I’m fucking that I am tensing my dick. If I untense, I can last much much longer (though I have to consciously remember to not tense). Hope it helps
