How many men are actually bisexual?

The way I think about it is instead of looking at it as attraction to male/female - think of it as feminine/masculine instead.
Take my own attractions. I am attracted to femininity alone. I have zero attraction to masculinity.
So, yes, if a male is effeminate, is built more like a female than a male - I would do him.
But "regular guys" - no way, no how.
So therefore, like you, I could have sex with probably 70% of the female population below 60 years old.
But dudes... probably only 5% of males.
That's me. I just met a man after many online attempts with others. While I would love to meet younger, he's slightly older than me. But slim in build and shaved smooth below (like me). And very soft spoken. I'm definitely not attracted to masculine "bears".
 
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I love and couldn’t live without women but can appreciate a good looking dick and man ass. I have sex with women regularly but rarely play with guys. I just consider myself very open minded and sexually adventurous. I don’t mind wearing the bisexual label but I’m not sure it fits. I’ve read that to be truly bisexual one has to be capable of not only being physically attracted to but having feelings for men and women equally. For me with guys it’s all and only about the sex. Would you still consider me bi?
 
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I don't think you're far off the mark. Example: Some straight living men jerk off into their hand watching gay porn. But if they wait more than a split second... They won't eat it. The desire melts away in an instant. I used to be this way when my sexual urges changes evolving. And I agree, even at my gym, I can only see a few men in a week that I'd think I'd have sex with. But I see the ladies and think there are at least 10 on any given day. But porn...? I include a lot of male porn.

As I've said in the past: It's complicated.
agree heartily with you there. It is rare for me to be attracted to a guy (say at the gym), rare. But the other day, in my sorta small weight room (medium sized actually), I counted five women that hit the mark for me. BUT, for the right guy, bend me over please (or on my knees)!
 
agree heartily with you there. It is rare for me to be attracted to a guy (say at the gym), rare. But the other day, in my sorta small weight room (medium sized actually), I counted five women that hit the mark for me. BUT, for the right guy, bend me over please (or on my knees)!
Most of my porn viewing though, is gay focused, most of the beauty I see is female. This one reminds me of my wife: 1705594878047.png
 
agree heartily with you there. It is rare for me to be attracted to a guy (say at the gym), rare. But the other day, in my sorta small weight room (medium sized actually), I counted five women that hit the mark for me. BUT, for the right guy, bend me over please (or on my knees)!
My gym is about the same. But... There are days when the college boys are working out... I know I'm on the older side so it would never happen but... A few of them are very twinkish looking. Most of the older guys though are too masculine for my taste.
 
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I’ve read that to be truly bisexual one has to be capable of not only being physically attracted to but having feelings for men and women equally. For me with guys it’s all and only about the sex. Would you still consider me bi?
Where did you read that? it's nonsense. Being bisexual is merely about being attracted to both sexes, romantically OR physically. That's it.
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I love and couldn’t live without women but can appreciate a good looking dick and man ass. I have sex with women regularly but rarely play with guys. I just consider myself very open minded and sexually adventurous. I don’t mind wearing the bisexual label but I’m not sure it fits. I’ve read that to be truly bisexual one has to be capable of not only being physically attracted to but having feelings for men and women equally. For me with guys it’s all and only about the sex. Would you still consider me bi?
"Having feelings for men and women equally?" And in your reading, did the author suggest how those equal feelings are measured? Did the author suggest what sexual preference category you're assigned if the "feelings" are anything but equal; say, 55% chicks and 45% dudes? And only the presence of feelings for both genders were necessary to fall into the bisexual category? That must be a very great and convenient relief to all those men out there having sex with other men and still identifying themselves as straight!
 
Neither. I evolved after years of contact with pretentious, presumptive, mean-spirited, delusional, pseudo-intellectual, passive-aggressive bullies like you.
All of those grandiose words to deflect from the fact that you have been arguing with so many people in this thread. Honestly, this whole statement reads as a tu quoque statement. Anyway, does anyone have anything else to add to the topic? Thoughts or ideas?
 
All of those grandiose words to deflect from the fact that you have been arguing with so many people in this thread. Honestly, this whole statement reads as a tu quoque statement. Anyway, does anyone have anything else to add to the topic? Thoughts or ideas?
It's tragic you find those words "grandiose," but you can look them up in a dictionary if their meanings elude you. My posts on this thread have been forthright and hardly camouflaged by language. You do not have to read them; but somehow, I think you find them compelling.
 
Just from my experience many just won't admit it or won't even consider the possibility, like I've got a long list.

So, summarizing more than people think, heck, most people don't know about me either irl.
 
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